I need help... Now. /:

[munchkinkidd]

He hasn't really sent anything 'mean' or whatever, other than threatening the court thing. The suicide stuff was wayyyy before when we broke up and I don't even have that same phone any more. I wish I did.

He's so mentally unstable it isn't even funny. Like I'm literally scared to talk to him sometimes and tell him things. It's ridiculous. Like last night when he got drunk, he kept sayig how much he loved us and wanted us to be a family, and I just didn't reply. I didn't know what to say and was scared to say anything and set him off. I don't want Zander around that... And he shouldn't either! That's what makes me angry- he's wanting to be around his son and he has all of these issues? Wtf!

Lol, I remember playing SSHS when I went to NHS. The band was pretty good!
LOL, where?! Apparently they hide from me, or are taken/not interested/gay. XD

I would just SEE if the mental instability thing goes away once he's born, if you don't see a change, I agree entirely that he doesn't need such a terrible influence in his life. The only reason I say SEE is because I know that before I got pregnant, I was diagnosed with major depressive disorder, and anxiety, AND I had a bit of a drug problem (not a terrible one, mind you, I was never a junkie or anything, I just smoked alot of weed and poor Scarlet was concieved while me and her daddy were on ecstacy ) and once I found out I was pregnant, I made a COMPLETE turn around. It became all about her, not all about me. Now I'm an entirely different person! But it generally takes guys alot longer. My FOB didn't start getting all excited and making a huge turnaround until a few weeks ago.

And the school SUCKS. I went freshman year and was treated so poorly because I wasn't "preppy" or "country" that I ended up going to school in Phenix City.

I was depressed. When I was younger I had a problem cutting but I quit a couple of years ago. I almost did again because of FOB and his depressive/negativity and that's part of the reason I left. I didn't wanna get back into that state. /: Then Zander popped up.

I was that way at NHS. I went there my freshman and sophomore year then started homeschooling and taking classes out at Wallace College.

 

[blamesydney]

He hasn't really sent anything 'mean' or whatever, other than threatening the court thing. The suicide stuff was wayyyy before when we broke up and I don't even have that same phone any more. I wish I did.

He's so mentally unstable it isn't even funny. Like I'm literally scared to talk to him sometimes and tell him things. It's ridiculous. Like last night when he got drunk, he kept sayig how much he loved us and wanted us to be a family, and I just didn't reply. I didn't know what to say and was scared to say anything and set him off. I don't want Zander around that... And he shouldn't either! That's what makes me angry- he's wanting to be around his son and he has all of these issues? Wtf!

Lol, I remember playing SSHS when I went to NHS. The band was pretty good!
LOL, where?! Apparently they hide from me, or are taken/not interested/gay. XD

I would just SEE if the mental instability thing goes away once he's born, if you don't see a change, I agree entirely that he doesn't need such a terrible influence in his life. The only reason I say SEE is because I know that before I got pregnant, I was diagnosed with major depressive disorder, and anxiety, AND I had a bit of a drug problem (not a terrible one, mind you, I was never a junkie or anything, I just smoked alot of weed and poor Scarlet was concieved while me and her daddy were on ecstacy ) and once I found out I was pregnant, I made a COMPLETE turn around. It became all about her, not all about me. Now I'm an entirely different person! But it generally takes guys alot longer. My FOB didn't start getting all excited and making a huge turnaround until a few weeks ago.

And the school SUCKS. I went freshman year and was treated so poorly because I wasn't "preppy" or "country" that I ended up going to school in Phenix City.

I was depressed. When I was younger I had a problem cutting but I quit a couple of years ago. I almost did again because of FOB and his depressive/negativity and that's part of the reason I left. I didn't wanna get back into that state. /: Then Zander popped up.

I was that way at NHS. I went there my freshman and sophomore year then started homeschooling and taking classes out at Wallace College.

See what I mean? My THEORY is that guys don't feel the baby's like we do, so it's not QUITE as real for them until much later. But I wouldn't wait forever for him to grow up. If he is going to continue to act the way he is when he's born, personally, I would have no problem kicking him to the curb. He seems not to understand how horribly his behavior could effect his son!

I'm actually only 16 myself, but I'm already a senior, and since I found out I was pregnant at the beginning of the school year, I switched all of my classes to online classes so that I could finish them up quickly and be done with highschool by the time Scarlet's born. I'll graduate 2 days before I turn 17.

 

[munchkinkidd]

He hasn't really sent anything 'mean' or whatever, other than threatening the court thing. The suicide stuff was wayyyy before when we broke up and I don't even have that same phone any more. I wish I did.

He's so mentally unstable it isn't even funny. Like I'm literally scared to talk to him sometimes and tell him things. It's ridiculous. Like last night when he got drunk, he kept sayig how much he loved us and wanted us to be a family, and I just didn't reply. I didn't know what to say and was scared to say anything and set him off. I don't want Zander around that... And he shouldn't either! That's what makes me angry- he's wanting to be around his son and he has all of these issues? Wtf!

Lol, I remember playing SSHS when I went to NHS. The band was pretty good!
LOL, where?! Apparently they hide from me, or are taken/not interested/gay. XD

I would just SEE if the mental instability thing goes away once he's born, if you don't see a change, I agree entirely that he doesn't need such a terrible influence in his life. The only reason I say SEE is because I know that before I got pregnant, I was diagnosed with major depressive disorder, and anxiety, AND I had a bit of a drug problem (not a terrible one, mind you, I was never a junkie or anything, I just smoked alot of weed and poor Scarlet was concieved while me and her daddy were on ecstacy ) and once I found out I was pregnant, I made a COMPLETE turn around. It became all about her, not all about me. Now I'm an entirely different person! But it generally takes guys alot longer. My FOB didn't start getting all excited and making a huge turnaround until a few weeks ago.

And the school SUCKS. I went freshman year and was treated so poorly because I wasn't "preppy" or "country" that I ended up going to school in Phenix City.

I was depressed. When I was younger I had a problem cutting but I quit a couple of years ago. I almost did again because of FOB and his depressive/negativity and that's part of the reason I left. I didn't wanna get back into that state. /: Then Zander popped up.

I was that way at NHS. I went there my freshman and sophomore year then started homeschooling and taking classes out at Wallace College.

See what I mean? My THEORY is that guys don't feel the baby's like we do, so it's not QUITE as real for them until much later. But I wouldn't wait forever for him to grow up. If he is going to continue to act the way he is when he's born, personally, I would have no problem kicking him to the curb. He seems not to understand how horribly his behavior could effect his son!

I'm actually only 16 myself, but I'm already a senior, and since I found out I was pregnant at the beginning of the school year, I switched all of my classes to online classes so that I could finish them up quickly and be done with highschool by the time Scarlet's born. I'll graduate 2 days before I turn 17.

Congrats!

I'm not going to wait for him to grow up. And he's got one chance. I he screws up, that's his fault and his problem.