I need some support

[Jelebi]

I really thought trying for a baby would be fun... it should be and I was the one that gave advice to everyone to relax and to enjoy the ride and to have fun, try new things, etc...

But seeing these stupid BFNs left right and centre are really getting me bummed down and sad.

Last month, I had all the symptoms in the world, I even had spotting, only to find out that my AF came.
Then this month, I made sure I checked with ovulation strips, timed everything... I was relaxed, had fun with it, etc...

... and nothing. No symptoms. No spotting. I can't sleep at night, but I've been having this for over 3 months now.
I am 12 dpo today and of course BFN. A big fat BFN. I feel nothing, not even a cramp, just really sore breasts.
How am I supposed to relax and have fun with this?
I am so sad, what's wrong with me?

 

[sallyhansen76]

Nothing is wrong with you love
Its perfectly normal to feel down when we see those bfn. But dont worry one day you ll get your BFP. you still hvae a chance, sometimes no symtoms is a good thing. Chin up hun, you ll get there!!
and baby dust!! xxx

 

[sarahh]

TTC is tough emotionally

 

[Jelebi]

It is... And my husband is telling me I stress him out, while he has no idea what I am going through.
This is not fair.

 

[sallyhansen76]

I think most guys cant handle stress so they just tune it out.
THats what I believe anyway for my DH. lol

 

[BettieB]

I think most guys cant handle stress so they just tune it out.
THats what I believe anyway for my DH. lol

I totally agree with you there. My DH pretty much told me that! he said he doesnt like getting disappointed so he doesn't pay attention and sometimes can make me feel alone!

a negative on 12DPO doesnt mean youre out! Its not over til the fat lady sings GL hun!

 

[Jelebi]

I started getting mild cramps this morning... sooooo... I may be out.

 

[sallyhansen76]

could go either way still. Good luck!

 

[Ozzieshunni]

With TTC our first, I was very stressed out with my job. The cycle I got pregnant, I told my husband I wanted to NTNP. I also got a new job. Lo and behold, the day before I start my new job, I find out I'm pregnant. Try to distract yourself and not think about it. Stop tracking ovulation and enjoy life. I bet you'll get that BFP when you least expect it

 

[cj1979]

Hunni, you're perfectly normal. Ttc is the biggest emiotional roller coaster and sometimes it's utter CRAP!!! Keep your chin up sweetie coz it WILL happen. Big (((hugs))) xxx

 

[Andypanda6570]

Aww there is nothing wrong with you. People think it is easy to get pregnant but the truth is , it's hard. It will happen for you, try to relax and before you know it you will have your BFP, trust me

 

[Ozzieshunni]

Andy, I didn't know you were TTC!