I promised not to, but I cant stop feeling sad

[suzan]

Dont get me wrong please.

I just heard about a girl that miscarried with me and now she is pregnant
I feel stuck and hopeless. I know I shouldnt say this as we havent tried, yet, but I feel as if I am left behind.

I feel so happy for her, but sad for me. I feel sorry about everything that happened to me.

Just wanted to let things out my chest as I am here sitting at work, feeling like crying.

Anyone feels sad TTC after a loss?

 

[Tink1o5]

im very sorry about ur loss hun

 

[Belle]

i'm sorry 4 ur loss!!
You'll time will come very soon..... don't get yourself down just stay positive!!
Good luck!!!! xx

 

[Tiffers]

AW hun! Miscarriage is so so so hard. You are perfectly normal with feeling sad TTC!! I know that you will start trying and get that baby at the perfect time! Hang in there hun!

 

[Tishimouse]

I think that without the ability to feel sad, we wouldn't know how wonderful it is to feel happy.

It's OK to feel sad and understandable after your difficult experience. However, that's exactly what it is, one of life's uphill struggles, but maybe you will feel strong enough in the future to allow others to lean on your shoulders for support. Your happiness is on the way, you'll see.

 

[Sinead]

It will happen for you

 

[poppy]

I am so sorry Suzan, I hope you are feeling a bit better now. Your time will definately come - and soon. Especially now the doctor is going to give you some support and help with the clomid and everything. I know you are going to feel worried and anxious, that is natural but I know when you do get that little bundle in your arms, you will be a wonderful mum!

xxx

 

[cheryl]

Suzan I miscarried about the same time as you and I am still here. How are you?
I try not to get upset too and when I read about others getting preg I feel the same.
I havn't been able to make myself go into first tri. I wanted to, just to have a read but it upset me too much.
You will soon have that little bundle in your arms
Luv Cheryl xxx

 

[gde78]

Hi Suzan. I might not be the best person to respond to this post, but I wanted you to know how sorry I am you're feeling so sad, and I do know how you feel. Wishing you lost of luck TTC. I'm sure your happy bfp day is just round the corner.

 

[Chellebelle]

Aww TTC is so difficult, and with all the ups and downs it just makes you feel lost sometimes... but you will get there soon.

 

[diva4180]

Aw hun, I'm so sorry, extra to you. I really hope getting a bfp happens for you soon.

 

[babe2ooo]

aww hunny i think it normal to feel sad about that, dont worry huny it will get better

 

[xclairex]

hi suzan of course it is ok to feel sad u lost something so pressure to us! i ju found last week my friend is pregnant 8 weeks and she didnt even try! it jus happened i lost my baby at 9 weeks and it was awful so of course its ok for us to feel sad let it all out hun big big hug your way x

 

[Vickie]

I think what you are feeling is completely normal

 

[Vickie]

I think it's perfectly normal for you to feel sad after what you've gone through

 

[Carlyanne15]

Never say sorry or feel sorry for what has happened to you, you have a right to feel anyway you wont.
I hope you feel better soon
big hug x

 

[faith_may]

I'm so sorry

 

[Wobbles]

BIG huggle for you hun

Its hard I know and natural the way you feel. One day you will look back on sad times but will be moving swiftly on to the future times I know you will x

 

[Rumpskin]

Oh Suzan

I am sorry you are feeling so low at the moment.

You must be going through a roller coaster of emotions at the moment. I am okay at work but at weekends, that is when I get sad

I went to a party at the weekend and there were loads of babies and pregnant women. Too much.

Your time will come lovely.

Sending you a hug.

xxxx

 

[avistar]

Lots of I don't blame you for feeling how you do! And you are plenty entitled to feeling sad. Just keep being strong and healthy...and do what you need to do to get that BFP!!!