Hello everyone I am new to this..I am 29 and have a 5yr old and I am ready for another..I am overweight and I pretty much have been my whole life, and my husband and Dr would like me to lose about 20-30pds before I get pregnant..he advised me to start taking prenatals, and sometimes my husband does not prevent..I got pregnant with my 5yr old while I was on the pill which was ok, but i was taking test and they were neg and my periods started to be different i had two of them within 3 wks of each other and they were shorter than normal, and over a period of almost 2 wks I had taken 4 test and they were all neg, well I had my yearly scheduled and cld 3 days before and told them i thought i was, so i go to the dr and i was 5 wks pregnant but all my test were negative, so ever since my child i get scared if i miss a period or they are different cause i am always reg, well here the past about 4 periods they were early and late and short just a mess all around and not normal and here in the past 2-3 days i swear I have been feeling the fluttering like i was 16 wks pregnant or something..I feel like i am going crazy cause i feel as though i am paranoid and i am so affraid that my test yet again this time are coming back negative cause they were 5 yrs ago and am affraid my dr will think i am crazy it i call and tell him this so what should i do..