I think I will go maddd

[princess_x0]

sorry just need to rant, but i think im literally going crazy now! some stuff happened and yeah wich i am not allowed to say on here but yeah and then i got the implant and me and my bf decided to wait three years til i get the implant out to have a baby. i know im only 17 but since the thing happened im more broody than ever and 3 years seems a lifetimeee. aaahhh sorryyy

 

[nightkd]

Oh boy, I am broody. I just got a negative preg result, which makes my BF happy, but I would have 'yay-ed' if it had been positive...along with being terribly scared.

Just come off the pill aswell, so I'm on babymaking alert. Wargh!

Anyway, just to let you know I'm feeling similar.

How about using those 3 years, setting up a baby account and putting money into it regularly so when you do get pregnant you can splash the cash on loads of stuff for your little one?

 

[princess_x0]

Oh boy, I am broody. I just got a negative preg result, which makes my BF happy, but I would have 'yay-ed' if it had been positive...along with being terribly scared.

Just come off the pill aswell, so I'm on babymaking alert. Wargh!

Anyway, just to let you know I'm feeling similar.

How about using those 3 years, setting up a baby account and putting money into it regularly so when you do get pregnant you can splash the cash on loads of stuff for your little one?

Awwh good luck with baby making babe
Thats and exellent idea! I never thought of it! Thankyou for the idea huni xx

 

[polo_princess]

3 years really isnt long when you have your whole life ahead of you!!

 

[trishk]

nightkd you said that your boyfriend was please when you got a negative are you sure this is the right decision for you guys? its just i know how hard it is to be a young mum i was 20 when i had my first and it was what me and my husband wanted we tried for 2 years but i never realised how hard it was gonna be!

Girls please please think about the decisions you are making they will affect your whole life - you can't give a baby back its your responsibility for life. Men can walk away but mothers generally cant!
You have probably at least another 20 years ahead of you to make babies, but you can only be a teenager once. Im not trying to tell you what to do im just telling you from experience that it turned out to be alot harder than i first anticipated!

 

[nightkd]

We're not trying. I just want to. He doesn't and he's right. We're waiting until we're settled and older. I've just come off the pill for a break, but because that protection isn't there it's making me broodier than ever (sooper for our sex life tho!)..

3 years will feel like it's whizzed past when you reach the point where you can ttc.....meanwhile it'll drag on, so might as well make the most of it!
Means any money you do put in there'll gain a load of interest aswell!

 

[princess_x0]

3 years really isnt long when you have your whole life ahead of you!!

I know but things have been crap lately x
And congratulations on your little girl x

 

[princess_x0]

nightkd you said that your boyfriend was please when you got a negative are you sure this is the right decision for you guys? its just i know how hard it is to be a young mum i was 20 when i had my first and it was what me and my husband wanted we tried for 2 years but i never realised how hard it was gonna be!

Girls please please think about the decisions you are making they will affect your whole life - you can't give a baby back its your responsibility for life. Men can walk away but mothers generally cant!
You have probably at least another 20 years ahead of you to make babies, but you can only be a teenager once. Im not trying to tell you what to do im just telling you from experience that it turned out to be alot harder than i first anticipated!

Hey,
Yeah I know its a hell of a responsibility.
I probably wont end up with kids til im mid 20's.
Not exactly how I would like it to be but I want to be in a management or have my own business first.
And..
Lots of families live with one or the other parent, women walk away from children as do men. I'm not saying that I would ever walk out on my own child I'm just saying it does happen. And people say that women can't but they do.
xx

 

[princess_x0]

We're not trying. I just want to. He doesn't and he's right. We're waiting until we're settled and older. I've just come off the pill for a break, but because that protection isn't there it's making me broodier than ever (sooper for our sex life tho!)..

3 years will feel like it's whizzed past when you reach the point where you can ttc.....meanwhile it'll drag on, so might as well make the most of it!
Means any money you do put in there'll gain a load of interest aswell!

Yeah I spoke to my bf about it and we decided when I turn 18 we will open a joint savings account and put £100 in each month so by the time we have a buba we will have lots of money to splash on a really pretty nursery eee it makes me so excited lmao x

 

[polo_princess]

Are you going back to school/college after the summer?

 

[AppleBlossom]

3 years is nothing hun. I love my baby but if I could go back and have another 3 years I definately would

 

[princess_x0]

Are you going back to school/college after the summer?

yeah going back to finish my level 2 hairdressing then hopefully be done by march, depending if i pull my finger out and get everything done. then i wana be working fulltime for a few yrs, hence why we decided to get the implant and wait atleast 3 yrs x

 

[princess_x0]

3 years is nothing hun. I love my baby but if I could go back and have another 3 years I definately would

yeah we just need to move out and get into a comfortable position first x

 

[Dream.A.Dream]

Just wanted to say i know how hard it is to have to wait when you want something that badly!

 

[princess_x0]

Just wanted to say i know how hard it is to have to wait when you want something that badly!

aww huni how long are you planning to wait? xx

 

[ls27]

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[Dream.A.Dream]

Just wanted to say i know how hard it is to have to wait when you want something that badly!

aww huni how long are you planning to wait? xx

I have to wait 2 or 3 years at least. Until OH decides he's ready really. So goodness knows

 

[princess_x0]

I'm gonna be waiting 4/5 years I think but it will fly by I hope

xxxxx

Lol hopefully but then again, I can't even believe we are almost in september haha. Time does fly..Then when it comes to it your guna look back and think omg where has the time gone..! lmao xxxx

 

[princess_x0]

Just wanted to say i know how hard it is to have to wait when you want something that badly!

aww huni how long are you planning to wait? xx

I have to wait 2 or 3 years at least. Until OH decides he's ready really. So goodness knows

How old are you? Sorry dont mean to be rudee ^.^ xx