I have a colleague at work who last year decided she wanted a baby. She bought a digital testing kit and low and behold a couple of months passed and she was pregnant.
She went on maternity leave and had the baby in November 2010. She returned to work and is pregnant again and it won't be long until she's back on maternity leave.
Unfortunately she's one of these ladies who is insensitive about most things - I'm sure she doesn't mean to be and it just comes out wrong!
Anyway, before she got pregnant with the first baby and also during pregnancy she was interested in whether I was going to have one and I think we discussed the issue a couple of times.
Now she's back at work and as a proud mummy (which I don't blame her for) most conversation revolve back to either her son or the new baby.
So today she asked me whether as my sister is expecting a baby whether I'm thinking of having a family now. I said no - I'm not sure she gets how difficult it is for other people to have babies and I didn't want to have daily conversations about my lack of pregnancy. So I lied - it's not big and it's not clever but hopefully she won't rub a sore nerve!
I'm totally out for this month - DH is poorly! Will start again in ernest at the end of the month!!
She went on maternity leave and had the baby in November 2010. She returned to work and is pregnant again and it won't be long until she's back on maternity leave.
Unfortunately she's one of these ladies who is insensitive about most things - I'm sure she doesn't mean to be and it just comes out wrong!
Anyway, before she got pregnant with the first baby and also during pregnancy she was interested in whether I was going to have one and I think we discussed the issue a couple of times.
Now she's back at work and as a proud mummy (which I don't blame her for) most conversation revolve back to either her son or the new baby.
So today she asked me whether as my sister is expecting a baby whether I'm thinking of having a family now. I said no - I'm not sure she gets how difficult it is for other people to have babies and I didn't want to have daily conversations about my lack of pregnancy. So I lied - it's not big and it's not clever but hopefully she won't rub a sore nerve!
I'm totally out for this month - DH is poorly! Will start again in ernest at the end of the month!!