ellie09
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I found out five days ago i was about ten weeks pregnant. Me and OH wanted to tell our parents as soon as possible but we also said we wanted to tell them together. I was watching tv with my mum and we got talking about babies because one of my friends is eight months pregnant, she said that she wouldn't want me to get pregnant at this age but if i did she wouldn't want me to get a abortion and if i wanted an abortion, she'd try and talk me out of it. I saw this as the perfect chance to tell her! I just turned around and said "mum, i'm pregnant". She laughed because she thought i was joking at first, my dad was cooking in the kitchen so he heard too. He was like "what? are you joking because it isn't funny". I told them i was serious and my dad asked loads of questions but my mum just sat there, i started to cry and she hugged me. I reasured my mum and dad that me and OH didn't want an abortion and that i would want my mum there by my side as much as i could, my mum said it would be okay she'd be there. My dad said they would help with money, looking after the baby, be there for us, i could still live at home but OH couldn't live with me. Which was what i was expecting anyway, his house is huge but i don't want to live at his place, i want my mum by my said as much as possible and i feel uncomfortable around his family.
I'm so glad i have this off my chest! I'm just hoping OH isn't upset i told them without him, i know i probably shouldn't have but it just seemed like the perfect time. I hope he's not mad! I'm just worried about telling my sisters and brothers now. I'm 17 but my sisters are 33 and 29 so they are like a second mother to me, my brothers are older too and very protective. My mum wanted to tell my sisters to come over and i could tell them an hour ago but my dad said it was too late at night and we should all just sleep on it. I know they'll find out tomorrow and they won't react well
I'm so glad i have this off my chest! I'm just hoping OH isn't upset i told them without him, i know i probably shouldn't have but it just seemed like the perfect time. I hope he's not mad! I'm just worried about telling my sisters and brothers now. I'm 17 but my sisters are 33 and 29 so they are like a second mother to me, my brothers are older too and very protective. My mum wanted to tell my sisters to come over and i could tell them an hour ago but my dad said it was too late at night and we should all just sleep on it. I know they'll find out tomorrow and they won't react well