MagicLove
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Hello everyone, I just wanted to post a little about myself and my situation...
My husband and I have been married for 5 wonderful years (yes, we are young). We have TTC for the past 4 years, through IVF, HT, and naturally. After, having 3 losses in a row, I was told that I am infertile, and any more attempts could possibly risk my life. So, I made the hardest decision ever, I had a hysterectomy at the age of 24.
All I've ever wanted to do, is be a mother. So, at this point adoption is the ONLY option. Being an adopted child myself, I have no qualms about it. I hear these stories about girls who are young and they become pregnant, and they don't want their children, or they resent their children. It's almost as if a knife is in my heart, and I just want to say 'I wish I had the ability to do what you have been privileged to do' or I feel that longing inside me. Or 'if you really dislike being a mother so much, let me do it, I'd be more than happy to be a mother'.
So, as my husband and I begin this journey, please help me keep my spirits up and keep us in your thoughts...
My husband and I have been married for 5 wonderful years (yes, we are young). We have TTC for the past 4 years, through IVF, HT, and naturally. After, having 3 losses in a row, I was told that I am infertile, and any more attempts could possibly risk my life. So, I made the hardest decision ever, I had a hysterectomy at the age of 24.
All I've ever wanted to do, is be a mother. So, at this point adoption is the ONLY option. Being an adopted child myself, I have no qualms about it. I hear these stories about girls who are young and they become pregnant, and they don't want their children, or they resent their children. It's almost as if a knife is in my heart, and I just want to say 'I wish I had the ability to do what you have been privileged to do' or I feel that longing inside me. Or 'if you really dislike being a mother so much, let me do it, I'd be more than happy to be a mother'.
So, as my husband and I begin this journey, please help me keep my spirits up and keep us in your thoughts...