I want to say goodbye for now. My scan showed loss at 9wks.

[honey08]

so sry ur going thro this x

 

[scaredmum2be]

Really sorry to hear this hugs xx

 

[analyticalema]

So sorry for your loss honey...sending you lots of love...thinking of you! Xx

 

[Las78]

So sorry hun

 

[babytots]

Oh sweetie I am so so sorry sending you My thoughts are with you. xxx

 

[Laura2919]

I'm so sorry for your loss. I had a MMC in December 2007 and I have the twins now. It will happen one day. xx

 

[39YrMumtoOne]

So sorry for your loss. Thinking of you.

 

[Hoolie]

So very sorry.

Alex

 

[marie-louise]

sorry for your loss pet xx

 

[katstar]

i am so sorry this has happened for you. Look after yourself. Xx

 

[Worrisome]

so sorry for your loss hun.

 

[sunshinegirl]

Thankyou all for your kind words of support and best wishes. Tomorrow I go in for my D&C or ERPC never know what they calling it. Was hoping I would never go through this again. It will mean it is finally over...I know that sounds strange because my little angel has already gone but it doesn't seem real yet!!!!
Last time I waited for 2 months before trying again to let me and my body heal and I would stand a better chance of carrying to term. What would you suggest, trying straight away or waiting for body to repair......the other thing is my mum has cancer and we are not sure how much time she left and I would like her to see my child before she gets too ill...I'm gonna post this on main forum to get everyones opinion. Please what do you all think????

 

[lauralora]

so sorry hun xxx

 

[Lolly W]

You'll know when you're ready physically and mentally. Initially after my ERPC, I thought I'd never want to do 'it' again. I just felt violated and really depressed about it all. Then, one evening, it just felt a bit easier and we started trying again.

We first started trying when my Nan was really ill with leukaemia and it was important to us that our baby got to meet her. Sadly she has been gone a year and a half now and never got to meet her great-grandchild as we haven't got there yet.

I think what I'm trying to say is that nature will take its course whatever you intend or try to plan. The important thing is that you take the time to recover from this heartbreak and don't rush yourself hun.

xx

 

[Kaylz--x]

So sorry darling. Take care of yourself x x

 

[kermit4]

I'm so sorry for your losses sunshine girl. You must be really going through it right now.

With regards to TTC again I think my advice would be give it a few weeks and think about it again then. Emotions will be riding high right now and how you feel at this moment might not be how you feel tomorrow or even one hour from now. Whatever you do don't put pressure on yourself to try again sooner than you really truly feel ready for. Lolly W is right, there is no planning nature's course for her.

My thoughts are with you, your partner and your Mum right now.



kermit.