so.. lost our baby not long ago.. and we had both decided that we wanted to try, since we are getting married in october of 2011 anyways, and we want three kids! well all the sudden, two nights ago he tells me he doesn't want to try to have a baby and that I need to go back on my birth control, that we cant afford it, etc.. when we CAN afford it!!! maybe this is his way of grieving? I just needed to vent because its driving me nuts.. i thought we were on the same page.. he said that we should try before i ever mentioned it.. now its "no lets wait three years.."THREE YEARS!!! what?????? THREE YEARS? I just cant fathom waiting three years to start our family.. ugh!