i will be a member of this section till i die LOL

[Mammy2Joojx]

as the title says!

I don't plan on getting in another relationship with anyone! I want to focus on jayden 100% & don't want to have to share my attention with another person! So i will be on this section of the site for years to come

Who else is happy being single? Xx

 

[dustbunny]

As I said in another thread, I miss the company of someone else and feel lonely from time to time BUT... I am way more happy being single than I have been in a years! You can do what you want when you want without having to pander to someone else. You can drink, eat, sleep whatever you want. Although it was always me who decided everything from what we did to what we ate etc [it used to drive me insane!!!] it feels different now.

TEAM SINGLE!!! YAY!!!

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

team single

I've never actually been in a serious relationship, not even with FOB, but i now know i definitely don't ever want to be in a serious relationship mucch happier on my own with jayden, no risks of it all going arse up x x

 

[dustbunny]

Haha... I completely misread the end of your comment. I thought you wrote "no risks of it going up the arse x x." I was thinking wtf?!

I have had what I would consider 2 proper relationships, neither of which were with FOB in hindsight. Definitely much better being your own person with a mini me.

 

[teal]

Everyone is fab in this section

I'm happy being single. I did meet someone but I ended things when he just couldn't understand that I couldn't give him all my attention, couldn't spend every night talking to him and went in a strop when I didn't reply to text messages.

Too much hassle if I'm honest.

I'm happy with my gorgeous little boy xx

 

[moomin_troll]

I will be here for the long haul lol

It's just me and my boys and I'm happy with that, I don't need a man in my life to be happy and my boys don't need one either x

 

[Rhio92]

I'm not quite at the point of being happy being single yet, but I'm getting there. I plan to be here for the long haul Relationships cause too much shit!

 

[lauram_92]

I'd like to have someone to speak to, but at the same time I am glad I don't have FOB involved because I can make all my own choices for Oliver and parent him the way I want.

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

Everyone is fab in this section

I'm happy being single. I did meet someone but I ended things when he just couldn't understand that I couldn't give him all my attention, couldn't spend every night talking to him and went in a strop when I didn't reply to text messages.

Too much hassle if I'm honest.

I'm happy with my gorgeous little boy xx

i've had that teal aswell. He didn't understand that i had a baby to see to so couldn't spend forever teexting. I even told him i was going to bed at 7pm (cos i had been up since 3-30am) & he said 'people don't go to sleep at 7pm you're llying you're with someone else' so i just teext back & said 'grow up, night' my dad came over to have a cig beforee i went to bed as we live opposite eachother & he drove past in his van looking at my house! If my dad weren't there he probs would of gotten out but afterrr he just text saying 'checking to see if any lights were on cos if you were really asleep your house would be in the dark but you lied' i was freaked out for ages xx

 

[moomin_troll]

The thought of being with someone other then my boys dad worrys me too much. U can never be sure if the person is going to turn into a weirdo or not n my kids are too important so if they didn't like the person that would be it for me.

I think it takes a big man to start seeing a woman with children and for them to realise they aren't number 1 and be ok with that

 

[teal]

mammy2jooj - that is so creepy he drove past your house

moomin_troll - definitely agree that you never know if someone is going to turn out to be a weirdo. Definitely something I worry about xx

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

i know teal, think it was that one thats put me off men .. Nutjobs x x

 

[moomin_troll]

Plus u hear men only getting involved with women to get to their children....thought of that makes me sick.
So if I do ever meet someone I'm interested in ile be keeping my children to myself until I no they like me n then drop the bomb hahaha if they are worth my time they won't run a mile.

But that said I really don't want anyone else, although I'm still in love with my boys dad and always will be so hard for someone to live up to him anyways

 

[teal]

Massive hugs moomin_troll

The one person I did get to know after I had my son already knew I had a child because we had mutual friends. If I meet anyone else I'd take the same approach as you and not let them know I had a child until they got to know me, etc xx

 

[moomin_troll]

God it's all so complicated! We are just better off single lol
I might wait till I'm 30 (24at the mo)and just have random toyboys who dont need to no anything about me hahaha

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

you know what girls, that thought never crossed my mind! All my male friends know i have a son so it'd have to be someone new who didn't know any of my friends otherwise he'd know anyway. Saying that, i never go out to get the chance to meet new people lol x x

 

[lauram_92]

This boy I went to school with got my number from my Facebook, and texted me asking how I was etc etc. We were texting for a bit then he asked what I had been up to. I replied 'taking care of my son, other than that nothing much' and he said 'oh yeah, i forgot you had a kid' and then I asked him how he could forget that, and he never replied

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

This boy I went to school with got my number from my Facebook, and texted me asking how I was etc etc. We were texting for a bit then he asked what I had been up to. I replied 'taking care of my son, other than that nothing much' and he said 'oh yeah, i forgot you had a kid' and then I asked him how he could forget that, and he never replied

it scares them doesn't it how could someone forget you have a child though? x

 

[moomin_troll]

Hahaha my sister was out n a lad came up to her n said oh ur Kimberley's sister aren't u, she said yes. Well this lad had gone to school with me, never spoke to me but told her he always fancied me.....he doesn't no I've got kids lol n shame he's ugly

 

[Mammy2Joojx]

moomin_troll thats ffunny! Thats always the case with me, when i did pull they'd be awful i know tha sounds shallow but you've gotta atleast fancy them haven't you? Only good looking lad that has ever been interested in me was a complete stranger that saw me filling my car up with petrol at a garage. He told his dad, yes his DAD, to come over & ask if i was single & to apologise in advance if i was still with jaydens dad (jooj was in the car) i told him i was single so he went to tell his son who passed his number on to me & i stupidly lost it he was beautiful aswell xx