I wish I could stop worrying

[mammag]

All the worry in the world won't keep this baby inside of me alive and healthy. I wish I could just stop worrying about it and enjoy my little miracle. But with my last three pregnancies being miscarriages, my odds of losing this one too are 60%! Thise5 aren't very good odds. When my boobs don't seem as sore. When I don't feel any more cramping, I just panic. I've not made it this far with my losses, so I'm hanging onto that thread of hope. But it doesn't seem to be getting easier.

 

[HopefulMarla]

Just try to slow down your thinking. Remember, whatever will be, will be. Nothing you or anyone else can do about it. Enjoy being pregnant today, and remember you're not alone! I worry an insane amount. I feel like time is just ticking on by. It will get better as the pregnancy progresses

 

[Mummy to be x]

I'm with you, after two losses. My last loss I seen the HB at 7 week 3 days at a scan, HB was great and a week later we missscarried, and the odds off misscaraige after seeing a HB at 7 weeks were something like 5% (well that's what I read) . So I'm not one to listen to statistics after the pain I went through. Hang on in there Hun you CAN do this you still have a great chance so don't lose hope

 

[Nina83]

((hugs))
I know what you mean. I'm after 2 losses, one we also saw the HB, and one early.
The worrying is absolutely killing me. I'm just a mess. Worried if I'm cramping enough, maybe too much now? Symptoms less or more than before? And why aren't I throwing up? Am I so exhausted because I'm not sleeping well at night or because baby is making me tired? Inside my brain is one big mush or worry.
Add brown discharge for 2 weeks already and I'm a complete basket case.
I know my odds, and I know the statistics, but sometimes things have to turn around for the better, right?

When are you due? December? Theres a PAL December due date group over at PAL, please join
You're definitely not alone with your feelings, but it helps to be with others who understand!

 

[moter98]

I don't know if this will make you feel any better at all, BUT when I was struggling with losses before we had our 2nd, my Dr. told me our chances were very very high of the next pregnancy being successful. He also said that he sees multiple losses (in the 2-3 in a row) range all of the time and that most of the time the very next pregnancy is successful. He said its much more common than people think and that I shouldn't be concerned that there was something wrong with me, etc. It did turn out that the Dr. was right for us because we went on to have a healthy baby boy that very next cycle. I am sorry you are having to go through all of this worry and wish you the best of luck.

 

[shell-bell]

I understand how u feel. I've had 4 previous losses. I went for my scan on Friday at 7 weeks and we saw a gestational sac and a foetal pole(it was tiny though) doc couldn't see a heartbeat. He sent me back to check my hcg level and they've increase from 5999 to 29000 in the last week. I've got more bloods on Monday and a scan on Tuesday. Can't help but thing something's wrong!!! Sending u big hugs xxxx

 

[dairymomma]

My first 3 pg ended in miscarriage too. With two of those losses, I saw a baby and a hb at least 3 days before the bleeding started. The third loss was a mmc/blighted ovum. Then I went on to have my son. It was after my 3rd loss that I started seeing a specialist who prescribed baby aspirin and progesterone from bfp to 13 weeks as he figured I had a progesterone issue in my first tri. It work for my DS and it worked again for my DD. I've since had a few more miscarriages (8 total) but we're slowly figuring out what's going on and I'm happy to say I'm due this summer with our 3rd child. So I know the fear and worry and anxiety you are going through but if I can beat the odds and carry to term despite my numerous losses, then anything is possible. Here's to a happy and healthy 9 months for you!

 

[Mrs.R]

I feel your pain. There is simply nothing that can stop the worrying. I have had two loses but now and 14 weeks pregnant. I was an absolute mess this time convinced everything meant something. I have had no symptoms at all, not even sore boobs! I got a doppler at 10 weeks and it was what saved my sanity the last few weeks. Goodluck and trust that your body knows what's it's doing xxx

 

[LPF]

I'm with you. I'm cautiously about 5 weeks after 2 MCs and can't think positively at all. All I keep thinking is that if I'm going to MC I hope it's early and over with quickly. I don't have many symptoms. With my son I had horrendous sickness from 6-16 weeks so I feel if I don't have that severity, it must be failing.

PARL is vile......

 

[jeanyern123]

Best of luck mama! That's why I love this site, because you can get support and advice for worries like yours. Feeling your worry shared, worry halved. Have a rant and purge. Read up and learn. I think I'd be more stressed out if I didn't have my sisters to help calm my nerves.

 

[Mrs Dragonfly]

Sending you lots of hugs and prayers that your rainbow baby snuggles in tight so you can enjoy the rest of pregnancy with little worry