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hi all i just found out iam pregnet and iam scared stiff as i had a micarrage in november and iam so scared that its going to happen again the weeks are going so slow and its all iam thinking about i no they say you shouldnt but its hard all i wanna do is scream from the rooth tops iam having a baby but i dernt all my fella says its it will be ok but it dosent help i want to talk about it but iam scared sum 1 any1 help me iam going crazyy xx :cry::cloud9:
 
Don't pray and worry..Everything is going according to God's plan. Stress isn't good for the baby.Enjoy everyday of having your baby inside of you and cherish it..Have faith..:hugs: Im praying for stress freeness and hope..:)
 
Honey at the start it feels like time stands still. If you want to tell people then tell them. Dont feel like you have to bottle it in. Its so normal to feel scared and anxious but set yourself small milestones and then it doesn't seem so daunting.

When I first found out every day felt like a week - now Im 15 weeks 2moro and it only seems like yesterday i found out.

Try to be positive when you can but let the worry out when you need to. Confide in a close friend or family member that can help you. Remember that every day that passes is another day closer.

You will get through this. Sending you lots of :dust:
 
thank you dannyboygirl iam scared thats all xxxx

I know you are..Its okay to feel that way too. :hugs: I just want you not to stress and try to enjoy the now bc tomorrow isn't guaranteed for us. You are pregnant now and thats a blessing. We don't know why God takes away children sometimes(maybe they are really sick or he wants them back home) Stay strong and let hub rub the baby everyday.. I am here for you too..:thumbup:
 
Totally natural way to feel :hugs:

hx
 
You're not going mad sweetheart, everything you are feeling and thinking is perfectly normal.

I agree that the best way is to cherish every second and treat every day as a success. Get yourself a ticker to put in your siggy and watch that little baby grow.

Look after yourself and try to remain as calm as possible for baby - though of course you must cry if you need to xx
 
The early weeks are hard. I had a MMC in December and when i feel pregnant again in Feb i just di dnot know how i was going to get through the 1st trim! There was nothing anyone could say really as i knew there was no guarantees. Eventually i calmed down and thought 'what will be will be', stressing about it was driving me mad and was not helping anything. I booked a holiday to give myself something to look forward to and distract myself, that actually helped! Hope you will have a healthy pregnancy! x
 
I totally know how you feel chick - you just wish you could hypernate for a few weeks till your out of the woods! :hugs:
 
You're not going mad sweetheart, everything you are feeling and thinking is perfectly normal.

I agree that the best way is to cherish every second and treat every day as a success. Get yourself a ticker to put in your siggy and watch that little baby grow.

Look after yourself and try to remain as calm as possible for baby - though of course you must cry if you need to xx

whats a ticker hun xx and thank for ur kind words
 
I totally know how you feel chick - you just wish you could hypernate for a few weeks till your out of the woods! :hugs:

ur telling me i wanna go asleep and wake up for my 12 week scarlol hope ur ok xxx
 
hey all well iam now 7 week pregnet getting scared now as my baby dided at 8 week and 4 days god iam so scared xxxx
 

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