mommy2lilmen
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Tomorrow is fathers day, as some of you celebrate it and what not.
My kids have 2 different dads, the older 4 have one and my younger 2 have one. Well my current DH is pretty much the full time dad in ALL my kids lives and I try to make sure my kids, the older 4 recognize their bio dad. But it seems when it comes to fathers day crafts, and the meaning of fathers day and the sentimental meaning...my older 4 don't make or even call their dad EVER for fathers day. Instead they recognize their step dad. I am touched, and bothered at the same time. It hurts that they aren't close to their bio dad and that he doesn't really push to be in their lives. I just don't know how to be, or feel or what. my 4th has made 2 things, but the rest haven't. The rest don't seem to feel the way I do. Is it a boy thing, is it just the way things are supposed to be or?? My current husband has a beautiful card coming from my 3rd son and I am in tears right now cus of it My 4th son who made 2 things for each, havent wrote TO DAD, no, its to ROB..thats his bio dads name, and his stepdad is stu, always here. Why wont he call his dad, dad? I am sorry if this is a pointless thread but I had to release.
My kids have 2 different dads, the older 4 have one and my younger 2 have one. Well my current DH is pretty much the full time dad in ALL my kids lives and I try to make sure my kids, the older 4 recognize their bio dad. But it seems when it comes to fathers day crafts, and the meaning of fathers day and the sentimental meaning...my older 4 don't make or even call their dad EVER for fathers day. Instead they recognize their step dad. I am touched, and bothered at the same time. It hurts that they aren't close to their bio dad and that he doesn't really push to be in their lives. I just don't know how to be, or feel or what. my 4th has made 2 things, but the rest haven't. The rest don't seem to feel the way I do. Is it a boy thing, is it just the way things are supposed to be or?? My current husband has a beautiful card coming from my 3rd son and I am in tears right now cus of it My 4th son who made 2 things for each, havent wrote TO DAD, no, its to ROB..thats his bio dads name, and his stepdad is stu, always here. Why wont he call his dad, dad? I am sorry if this is a pointless thread but I had to release.