Not wanting to rain on anyone's parade but there is nothing worse than sour grapes in my honest opinion. I am 40 and TTC my 3rd with a big age gap. I had my DD's in my twenties and yes I conceived first time with both, doesn't make me a bad person
I am now on my 7th cycle of trying, I agree it is different because I already have kids. Does that mean I don't deserve a BFP if and when I get it....and that I can only announce it to people who already have kids for fear of upsetting everyone else
i am new to this board, and i have been on a few, and i have to say that i get just a little tired of the "neg nancy's"... not to be rude, or negative myself
i think IMHO, that ANYONE who gets a
ANYTIME/ANYWHERE/ANYHOW, should be given respect. I believe that you treat others as you want to be treated, turn the shoe on the other foot for a minute, if you got your
would you not want to share it with just about anybody who will listen ( or not)?.. would you not want to scream at the top of your lungs? would it really matter if you got your BFP the first time or the 100th time, i hope and pray everyone does get their BFP, and i hope and pray that those of us TTC will support those who did get them, and then, in turn, they would be happy for you..\
i guess what i am saying is that the TTC journey is a long hard road, filled with alot of emotions/feelings/ and what not, everyone is entitled to their own feelings, however, this is suppose to be a place to come and talk/yell/cry/mourn/ ect.. without judgement.
my story is a long and emotional one.. DH and I have been TTC (AND NP) for over 10 yrs, we have been on and off again.. my Cousin, whom does not have any kids, whom also adopted 3 of her sisters kids ( long storY), went thru HELL and back (tests, IVF's you name it) and just this past month she announced her pregnancy to her family.. i for one am beaming with joy, because she deserves to have a child ( just like all of us), and i will be happy for her and be there for her when she needs someone.
OK getting off my soap box now...