if you will be ttc soon... what are you hoping for? boy/girl/multiples

[dmestiza]

i though i would start a thread for us wtt girlys...
if u r ttc soon with ur first/ even if u will be ttc soon 2 add 2 ur family...

what r u hoping for...
a boy?
a girl?
twins?
more... hehehehehe

bkoz i have 3 brothers and no sisters... i am really praying and hoping and wishing for a little girl soon to bless my life. I have a strong feeling that me and my husband will have a bbgirl as our first child... i just have a strong gut feeling... koz i can only imagine right now... myself and my husband with a girl as r first... but my husband really wants ALL BOYSS/ a boy first!!! hahaha i would love twins identical girls one day!!!! that would be perfect...

all comments welcome here in regards to my thread...

thanks ladies for your time!!

 

[spicyorange]

My and dh would both really like a girl but if it's a boy that's fine to I DO Not want multiples!!

 

[Symphony7]

I want a girl first. ^_^ No multiples! Luckily they don't run in either of our families. Have lots of boy names and stuff picked out too.

 

[Belle0720]

Obviously we would be happy with any healthy baby!

But I would love a girl. Twins would be a dream but I don't think they run in either of our families. Both of my cousins on my dad's side (his sister's children)have twins but I think it comes from their dad's side.

 

[comotion89]

twins run in his side but none are living, i have identical great aunts we would love twins, we would like a son first all my siblings had boys first but then again not too bothered by the sex ideally id like to have a least one of each in the mix we want three kids.

 

[callmedan]

i constantly change my mind ha i always though i wanted a boy first but then i see a girl baby and im like ooooh now i want a girl! plus multiples would be hard work but a lot of fun too!
so in conclusion i think i would be over the moon with a happy healthy baby (babies?!) of either sex

 

[Mrs.Gj]

Twins run in both sides of our family, but I am crossing my fingers for no twins. However, if I knew that no matter what we would get twins, I would prefer to have them first. (we are hoping for 2 children total.) As far as preference goes, I would really love a little girl, and she would totally be a daddy's girl. DH is hoping for a boy to carry on the family name.

 

[bornthiswayxo]

I'm hoping for a girl but fine with either twins I'd be scared as heck but hey.

I'm TTC/NTNP starting Saturday. Literally coming off my pill tomorrow so I doubt it'll happen but who knows x

 

[Eleanor ace]

I'd love another girl but of course a boy would be amazing too . I'd rather not have multiples, just because my DH would have a total breakdown at the thought of 4 children but one of my friends is expecting twins and it is so special, it does make me think "aww, wouldn't twins be great!" . DH has triplet cousins but since they are on his side we're no more likely to have multiples, it doesn't stop him worrying though!

 

[zazie]

I'd be happy with either but if I could only choose one would love a little girl Multiples would scare me!

 

[tverb84]

Just one baby at first. Our neighbour who used to live across the street had triplets last July and this pregnant again or already had her forth child. I don't know what I would do if I were pregnant with triplets.

 

[stellaluna431]

We are hoping for a boy first. I always wanted an older brother, and my H always wanted a younger sister- so we would ideally like a boy and then a girl of course we will be happy with a girl first or two of the same sex... We'll love them regardless.

Identical twins do run in my family. I often joke that I hope we have a boy first and then have twin girls. It's only half-joking though... I'd actually really love that!

 

[dmestiza]

thank you all for your replys!!! it was nice reading all of your comments & very interesting... wishing you all good luck xoxo

 

[Flourish]

I would like a girl first, I think I want all girls but really would be happy with a boy if that's what nature decided.
I would rather not have twins though.

 

[jaspie]

I'd love a boy or a girl! Think OH would love a little boy, he hasn't said so but I bet he would, but we'll see. I'd love twins too but none in my family so quite unlikely I guess!
My best friend was pregnant with twins and she hated being pregnant because everything was magnified, she was feeling rough for most of it. They're gorgeous though and 7 now

 

[tverb84]

Two of my moms cousins are twins but I don't know of any other twins in my family.

 

[hayley x]

I would love another boy, but I know my daughter would love a sister, and I love having a sister myself... Good job we can't actually choose aye!! X

 

[CaliDreaming]

We've already got a boy and a girl so I don't have a preference for the gender, but we absolutely don't want multiples! Financially, healthwise and for my sanity's sake, twins at this stage would be a disaster.

I really love twins though and would have been overjoyed if we had gotten them for our first pregnancy or even for our second, but at this stage of the game I wouldn't be happy. 3 is our max and an extra would really cramp our lifestyle. We're both planning on permanent birth control options after #3.

 

[dcm_mw12]

I would love twins, boy and girl

 

[Tayla2748]

I would love twins!! DH and I have agreed that this will be my last pregnancy but I would be thrilled with 2 more babies!
I'm really hoping for one more girl. All of my siblings have an even number of boys and girls, so I'm hoping to follow suit!