I'm back and is been a while!

[spicyorange]

Hi everyone. I was a regular here 4 years ago but I've been gone quite some time. I counted every second before we ttc our first child. I came off the pill after nearly 10 years, had withdrawal bleed and got my bfp before my first period. My dd turned 3yo last month. Here I am back again. I stopped my mini pill yesterday although this time we've not been counting down, this time we've been far from 100% sure that having another is the right thing to do. for so many reasons, I'm actually quite scared. So I'm off the pill and were officially trying but this time I don't think I'll be tracking, opk testing etc etc, I think I'm a bit more willing to see what happens. I think I want this baby but I'm so frightened of upsetting our perfect little family. If spreading the resources too thin, if siblings hating each other, of twins or special needs, that the while thing is terrible idea! But it's now or never and I'm not sure never is right either. I feel like I should be more sure before ttc but I've been on the fence for over a year s g is time to make the decision and I think if we don't ill winner what if

 

[Bevziibubble]

Welcome back and good luck TTC!

 

[BB1982]

Yes, I totally get all those concerns, I have them all too! I think we are trying this month for baby #2 (#4 for DH!). Still not 100%, but I’m not getting any younger and if we are going to have another I’d rather do it quickly and get through these exhausting baby years!!

 

[Babybump87]

I have all those concerns too and we are TTC 3 !

Good luck !