shiawase
mum & expecting # 2
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Not sure if this is the right place to put this but i post in here more then anywhere else! I had a interview today and the woman was a total bitch made me cry my eyes out, not only accused me of being a bad mother for claiming benefits but also accusing me of benefit fraud. My mum and dad have lived with me for less then a month and i havent gotten round to contacting the council i was infact going to do it this week i know i should of done it sooner but things always got in the way.
someone has grassed me up saying that they moved in with me a month after i moved in the new house which is not true they came down on weekends. And also "that someone" said they also lived with me in my old house where i was claiming housing benefit when they didnt they were staying with a friend and came over every night to see liam/ help me out.
The only person who could of done this was liams dad he threatened me with this before he said he would tell them they were living with me to get me in shit even tho he knew they werent. My rent is gonna stop being paid untill i can proove that im right. im so worried that me and liam are gonna be homeless because his cold hearted dad wanted to get back at me for going to csa and stopping him from seeing him.
I told the woman that i made a mistake by not going to the council straight away, i know i should of done that and im kicking myself now but she doesnt believe me she thinks what he said was true and she said i must be living the high life with other people paying for my nice house and things that i can buy.
i have no idea whats going to happen, has anyone been in a similar situation? Please dont judge me and think i am some scummy mother on benefits living it up and lying to the system i made one mistake thats all, i havent even got a settee just cusions on the floor all my clothes come from charity shops so i can afford nicer clothes for liam so im far from living th high life as she said. i hate the way she made me feel i dont need to feel like this when half the time i think im a shit person anyway...sorry im rambling now
someone has grassed me up saying that they moved in with me a month after i moved in the new house which is not true they came down on weekends. And also "that someone" said they also lived with me in my old house where i was claiming housing benefit when they didnt they were staying with a friend and came over every night to see liam/ help me out.
The only person who could of done this was liams dad he threatened me with this before he said he would tell them they were living with me to get me in shit even tho he knew they werent. My rent is gonna stop being paid untill i can proove that im right. im so worried that me and liam are gonna be homeless because his cold hearted dad wanted to get back at me for going to csa and stopping him from seeing him.
I told the woman that i made a mistake by not going to the council straight away, i know i should of done that and im kicking myself now but she doesnt believe me she thinks what he said was true and she said i must be living the high life with other people paying for my nice house and things that i can buy.
i have no idea whats going to happen, has anyone been in a similar situation? Please dont judge me and think i am some scummy mother on benefits living it up and lying to the system i made one mistake thats all, i havent even got a settee just cusions on the floor all my clothes come from charity shops so i can afford nicer clothes for liam so im far from living th high life as she said. i hate the way she made me feel i dont need to feel like this when half the time i think im a shit person anyway...sorry im rambling now