CandyApple19
Pregnant with #3, PAL.
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I have always been a very comfortable person with my body and i don't see the need to hide myself away from my son, i still bathe with him because if i'm gonna get a bath, well he may as well do too, saves water and he loves having a bath, plus we play with his boats and stuff
My issue is trying to divert his attention from body parts and teach him not to stare, i know this is all perfectly normal for a toddler to do (heck he's amazed he has a willy!) but this is his own body, and of course i'm fine with him realising he has different parts from a girl (he has also seen his cousin naked when he has stayed with my big sister and her daughter, they are the same age)
How can i let him know it's not good to stare at people? He goes swimming frequently with his daddy and i've noticed he stares at people there too
I know he's just curious but i don't think i'd be too pleased if i saw another child gawping at Ollies parts..
Sorry if this post seems all over the place, i've found it quite awkward to try and voice exactly what i mean, i know i'm not the reason he stares at people because that is inevitable, but i wanna try and teach him not to, as it seems he just gets upset when i tell him no, but doesn't take in WHY...

My issue is trying to divert his attention from body parts and teach him not to stare, i know this is all perfectly normal for a toddler to do (heck he's amazed he has a willy!) but this is his own body, and of course i'm fine with him realising he has different parts from a girl (he has also seen his cousin naked when he has stayed with my big sister and her daughter, they are the same age)
How can i let him know it's not good to stare at people? He goes swimming frequently with his daddy and i've noticed he stares at people there too

Sorry if this post seems all over the place, i've found it quite awkward to try and voice exactly what i mean, i know i'm not the reason he stares at people because that is inevitable, but i wanna try and teach him not to, as it seems he just gets upset when i tell him no, but doesn't take in WHY...