I'm not entierly sure what to do.

Hmm that's a tricky one because it's hard to put across to him that it's wrong to stare but there's nothing wrong with the body kind of thing!!!

Maybe stay truthful and say that people don't like it when you stare at them there because it makes them worry that something is wrong, like they have a hole in their costume or a mark on them or something light hearted? x

 

He's just curious I wouldn't worry about it all kids stare and he's very young. I would just divert his attention onto something else

 

I'm not sure it matters at that age really. Those parts are no different to them than a hand or foot, it's just they don't get to see them very often. I wouldn't mind a child staring at Alice like that as it's entirely innocent. If it's a problem for you, I'd try to distract him rather than telling him not to look. At his age, he can't yet understand about privacy, and it will happen in its own time.

 

i wud just let him stare , once hes seen a few he'll get bored and look at sumat eles

 

I think if they mind a 2 year old staring, it really is their problem, not Ollie's. Sometimes people are offended by things we do, but you can't control that. If you make an issue, you run the risk of making Ollie feel it is something to be ashamed of, or something fascinating. If people seem uncomfortable, you could try catching their eye and eye rolling saying something about him being 'at that age'. What he's doing is totally developmentally normal.

 

i think other mums n dads will of been there at some point hun x

 

The greatest thing about other mums and dads is that they're in the same boat as you. If they can't get with that, then there's probably very little you can do to help them anyway. I would try a bit of distraction, but accept that he's only little