Im pathetic

[samzi]

I should be happy for my friends that are pregnant, but all i am is jealous

 

[lola]

Goodness don't say that your not at all pathetic its perfectly natural and you must not beat yourself up about it

 

[FEDup1981]

i agree its perfectly natural. Im jealous, and i have a child with no losses. Its just a stage of grieveing u will go through. dont be harsh on urself

 

[pinkgem100]

You are not pathetic, its natural, i have a cousin that is pregnant, due the end of this month. during the time she fell pregnant so did i and lost my little one on the 3rd Dec, I have seen her twice since and the first time was beating myself up as i cudnt look at her or her bump, its natural to feel like that, the second time i saw her, i told her the truth and she understood and has realy helped me, but it is natural to feel like that. Dont worry if you feel it for a while, i expect that i am going to. x

 

[susan_1981]

Definitely not pathetic. A girl I sit next to at work is trying for her second baby, she's been trying since Septembe time. I was convinced she was going to be pregnant by now but when she told me she was on her period, I couldn't help but feel quite happy. I feel really mean but I can't help it and I'm sure it's justs completely normal.

 

[becky77]

not at all please dont think that ,my neice is pregnant and i nearly threw up when somebody showed me her scan pic.

 

[samzi]

I am usually fine but last night set me off. A friends OH is expecting and he had updated facebook re the baby and then the same on msn, and it just got to me :/

 

[susan_1981]

Oh and also, my husband's friend's girlfriend is pregnant. I remember he went to the pub and his mate was there (I stayed for a blackcurrant and soda water and then left the drunks to it) and he told me his girlfriend was 6 weeks pregnant, I was 10 weeks at the time. I remember thinking "God, I wouldn't want to go back to that stage again", now she's had her 12 week scan and all is fine and I'm back to square one. Well I'm not even sure if I'm back to square one yet as I don't have a clue when my period will be due or if I'm even going to ovulate this month!

 

[Rumpskin]

I know how you are feeling honeybunch my sister is pregnant and I am green

 

[Widger]

Feel the same...

 

[vickielm]

| feel exactly the same. I have been off work since my D+C on Monday. It is my 25th birthday this monday coming and work asked me to go in so they could take me out to lunch as they missed me and they wanted me to know that they were all there for me and it is fine to grieve.

Half way through luch they dropped the bomb shell that the young girl i sit with on my desk, the girl i picked up every morning to take to work! Is pregnant too.

I cant help but feel resentment. I went for a walk with the operations manager and could not stop at my desk because she was there. What makes me mad is i feel that she has only gotten pregnant to keep her partner as he has gone away in the forces!

Why do i feel so horrible towards her. This should be her happy time that she wants to shout about-not keep quiet to save my feelings after my mmc with twins over the new year!

I thought that i was fine to go back to work early next week, thought that i would be strong enough. Bu i am not - i cannot go back to work and sit on a desk next to her with a smile on my face living her pregnancy with her.

I am a selfish B***H i know. But i cant do it?

 

[Waiting4Bump]

I feel exactly the same to you all xx

 

[Drazic<3]

You are not pathetic, not for a second.
Like the other girls have said, i get jealous so often too. My foster sister is pregnant with her second and im so jealous i find it hard to focus sometimes. I dont think it makes us bad people, its natural.