im really confused help :)

[confusedgirl]

i have been with my boyfriend for over a year now and i really love him. so as useual things have moved on and yes we did have a little go at sex bt it wasnt what you think about when sex pops into your head it was more like in and out. he is almost certain he didnt release any sperm but that still isnt enough for me. that was about 3 weeks ago .. since then i had a period however on the first day i was sent home from school with terrible cramps and almost throwing up .. later that day i was fine .. now my stomach feels harder is it normal .. or should i be more curious about pregnancy ?

 

[cheeky92x]

if you're worried the best thing to do is take a test

good luck

 

[PixieKitty]

If you've had your period, and he didn't come, I'm gonna say not pregnant. If it's still worrying you, test.

 

[Alexis]

agreed with pixie. test if youre still worried dear.

 

[aidensmommy88]

you could still have your period and be pregnant, it all depends on the timing and all of that, i would test... even if he thinks he didnt sperm, precum is a horrible thing lol good luck darlin

 

[confusedgirl]

Thanks for your support .. you see it was a bout 3 weeks agoo and i really dout i am but thers still that thort which makes me wonder ! .. you see my belly feels like a little harder like it does when i am due a period do you think this is a clue or am i over reacting ! ?

 

[Serene123]

I think you're probably late because you're stressed, but I'm not a pregnancy test. Good luck xx

 

[Rach276]

Agree with everyone else. x

 

[TashaAndBump]

Hey hunni,

If you are really worried (and it sounds like you are) the best thing will be for you to take a pregnancy test. You can get them free (and confidentially) from your doctors, or walk-in-clinic - some chemists offer them free to teenagers too, so you might try your local pharmacy.

You should get yourself checked (either at your GP or your local sexual health clinic) for STI's / STD's as they can be transmitted just from sexual contact - not always from the exchange of bodily fluids. You could be really be at risk of these, it's best to get checked out to be sure as not all STIs have symptoms, and some can be really nasty in the long run, but almost all are easily treatable if you are diagnosed early on.

In the future, make sure you ALWAYS use a condom - even if it is only going to be 'in and out'. Protect yourself hunni. Don't ever put yourself at risk.

If you want to chat, or want any more info (i.e. on where your local sexual health clinic / young persons clinic is) then feel free to PM me xx