Sunshine12
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Thanks folks. There is no way that my OH will have any of them staying in a hotel as we have a really big house and live very remotely. They wouldnt for one minute expect to have to either TBH (although I dont mind that part as his mum has bad arthritis and his dad is 80 and I would feel terrible if they had to stay in a hotel anyway.) My OH would do all the cooking, cleaning etc (which he does anyway) but I just wouldnt feel right about having them here. Im just going to put my foot down if they suggest it and say that they cant come until I feel ready. I want to get into a routine before its even discussed. It may well be that its just him that assumes they will want to come immediately. Im hoping as they have brought up 4 children they will realise that a new mum needs time at the beginning. Watch this space!! xx