Sorry for the long story...my questions are...
I have just started brown spotting, very light, baby fine. I'm not seeing the consultant until Wednesday, will they still go ahead with stitch if i am bleeding/spotting?
I am already feeling some pressure down there, same as last time, will this get worse with the stitch or will the stitch help to improve this?
If I have a short cervix at this point, will it be possible to still place the stitch?
Sorry I'm starting to panic now that it's getting closer, the sudden appearance of spotting is not helping either.
Thank you for any responses x
Hi there hun
I felt enormous pressure and bulging from as early as 8wks with the twins so can understand your anxiety

I also began to lose mucusy, brown blood at around 10wks which looked like bits of the plug to me. I was scheduled for the stitch at 12.4, it got postponed to 13.4 and the blood loss wasn't an issue and didn't stop it going ahead.
They'll only query doing the stitch if they think there's a chance you're miscarrying. If baby has been shown on scan to be fine recently despite the blood loss, then the stitch should still go ahead.
The pressure for me didn't go away after stitch, but in subsequent pregnancies is probably mainly due to pelvic prolapse than a weak cervix. It is still quite early, and even if your cervix was 'giving way' this early (which is doubtful) it probably wouldn't be enough to cause symptoms.
My cervix was very atonal and floppy at 13wks (should at that stage be firm), and when I stood up was likely already funneling at the top under pressure. This is because I was carrying two babies however, and my uterus was the size of an 18wk singleton uterus at that early stage. Yours is unlikely to be shortening significantly yet, and even if it were it would have to be virtually non-existent for it to be too late to place a stitch hun.
Hard as it is, try not to worry. Having a stitch at 12wks is in plenty of time to prevent any catastrophic changes to your cervix darlin'. The pressure you feel might indicate an already weakening cervix, BUT it can't be under more pressure than mine was, nor can it be a as weak as mine at that point. I still made it comfortably to 38wks despite this.
Your pressure can be completely normal after previous pregnancies, but even if, worst case scenario, your cervix were already 'giving' slightly under the weight of your expanding uterus, the stitch will help to give it an overall tension, sure everything up and add that much needed support well before it is too late.
The stitch placed early is remarkable and acts almost like a cervical transplant. Be prepared for pressure and added tightenings after the procedure, but for me these were normal post-surgery symptoms which never amounted to anything and certainly didn't indicate any significant changes. Good luck and keep us posted
