Hi Lizzie, Hi everyone
Lizzie, I am saddened at the news of your loss. I can also sympathize as I also had a loss at 7 weeks before getting pregnant with Gabriel 2 months later. You are such a great support to everyone here and I think I am not alone in saying that we are all here to support you at such a difficult time. Much love to you and your family.
I have just returned from the hospital where I received steroid shots for baby's lungs. All went well and my cervix is still holding at 15mm. I did however find out that I have gestational diabetes. I was so sure I didn't have it so I was a bit shocked to find out that news. I don't know what it all means yet because i will see the endocrinologist next week and he/she will give me more info. I suppose it means cutting out sugar altogether. I guess I'll be visiting the GD thread from now on... They also did an FFN test that came back negative which is reassuring. They said it means I won't go into labour in the next week. I always though it was 2 weeks but they said 1. Anyone have experience with this?
Hope you are all well and still baking your little bundles of joy!
I have type II diabetes and wear an insulin pump so I know a bit about GD. Try not to stress too much about it. You'll be watching what kind of foods you'll be eating. For instance white processed foods like pasta, white rice, white breads, cookies, cakes and candies. They'll raise your blood sugar. Switch your white processed to whole grains. Brown rice, multi grain breads, Either a protein pasta or whole grain pasta, pizza with whole wheat crust. You can even make cookies with whole wheat flour instead of white flour and I'm SURE in France you MUST have chocolate chips that are grain sweetened maybe at a whole foods store or health food store?!
It's just a matter of replacing bad ingredients with good in what you like. Agave nectar is low on the glycemic index. You should also be able to find it in a health food store and it basically tastes like honey.
Berries are low in glycemic index which means berries are less likely to cause highs.
MY BIGGEST tip is if your eating carbs....pair a protein with it. Something like Hummus, Peanut butter, beef jerky, cheese poultry, fish and/or beef.
If you pair brown rice with beans it is considered 1 full protein. So there's another source of protein.

It's not at all hard and as my gram used to say, "everything in moderation". If you want a piece of cake, cut a tiny piece. Don't over-indulge on the processed sugars, but don't make yourself nuts over having a small amount either.
Lizzie, while I know your waiting for the inevitable, I'm still praying for a miracle. I know there have been plenty of stories about fetal pole issues on here. I know the circumstance is a bit different here, but I'd still like to hope until/unless they confirm. These always push me over the edge because the waiting part is SO hard on mothers. It's breaking my heart to even think it's going to happen but I suppose coming face to face with the possibilities is being realistic. Ugh how I wish I could live in a land where everything turns out happily ever after like in the fairy tales.