I was induced this time round - I had a natural, spontaneous labour last time with DS1. Its kind of hard to compare the two experiences, as my spontaneous first labour, I laboured all in my back. I laboured for 11 hours at home, and then for about 3-4 hours in hospital before opting for an epidural. After the epidural, my son was born roughly 4 hours later and it was an emergency forceps delivery as he went into distress as I was in the pushing phase. The whole process was a shock to my system (when he went into distress and a billion people coming flying into the room - I was very close to having an emergency c-section), I had episiotomy but then still tore as well. They thought it was 3rd degree, so I had to go to theatre, but it ended up being a bad 2nd degree tear. I had to be in recovery for ages, and was so anxious to get back and see my son (he was up with my husband on the ward during this time).
I really wanted a different experience this time, and was petrified about being induced and what it would mean (my sister was induced and ended up with an emergency c-section).
However, although yes this time the pain was incredible by the end (no back labour what-so-ever), I had a quick and easy labour/delivery. For me, the contractions didnt come on thick and fast, it was gradual as they put the pitocin up.. Basically I found them easy for the first hour, started to really feel them in the second hour and then in the last hour they got umbareable - but I was basically 9/10cm by this point, so thats not surprising.
I think they thought I had ages to go, so they never checked me and I actually got an epidural just before he was born because I could no longer bare it. They put the epidural in and said theyd give me a few hours before they checked my dilation, however, they had to put a heart rate monitor on his head, as well as put a catheter in, and so when they did this they realised I was actually 10cm and ready to go (my son had started to push himself out and I was still semi getting pain and lots of pressure in my vagina).
Anyway, about 20 minutes after the catheter going in, he was born. I had a great midwife that really help ease him out to avoid tearing, and I only ended up with some slight grazing, and they put one stitch in - but they said that was more to tidy things up then being 100% needed.
My recovery this time has been amazing.. I basically didnt need any pain medication. Swelling had gone down by day 2-3 - and my vagina basically looked normal again at this point. No pain pooping or peeing. No issues from having the epidural.
Even though the pain was more intense at the end, I would take this labour and delivery every time over my natural one!!!
Everyone will obviously have a slightly different experience, but hopefully you will also have a good one too.
If Id been checked for dilation, I probably would have birthed my son without any pain relief at all (I just thought I might have had ages to go and couldnt face it at that point - before the epidural, I had no pain relief at all).
I also have 2 friends that have been induced and did it all with no pain relief, so its definitely possible
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