Ten
missing my spirit-baby
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I said hello on the intro forums, but since I figure I'll be spending most of my time here, I thought it polite to say hi here as well.
My husband and I are TTC after losing our little girl last year 8.5 months into our pregnancy. We started TTC as soon as we were cleared by my doctor, as we both have a strong feeling that she still wants to be our daughter but wanted to wait a bit.
So we're grieving more the loss of timing than the loss of the child, which seems hard for a lot of people to understand. But it's grief, whatever way you slice it, and a lot of people seem to have trouble dealing with that as well. It's made this TTC journey a lot different than the first one. I'm frustrated with all the unsolicited advice and the way a lot of people find it more comfortable to pretend this will be our first pregnancy.
I'm 10dpo and this is our fourth cycle trying. I can't wait to get to know all you wonderful people - and I hope that none of us will linger here long before moving on to the pregnant forums.
My husband and I are TTC after losing our little girl last year 8.5 months into our pregnancy. We started TTC as soon as we were cleared by my doctor, as we both have a strong feeling that she still wants to be our daughter but wanted to wait a bit.
So we're grieving more the loss of timing than the loss of the child, which seems hard for a lot of people to understand. But it's grief, whatever way you slice it, and a lot of people seem to have trouble dealing with that as well. It's made this TTC journey a lot different than the first one. I'm frustrated with all the unsolicited advice and the way a lot of people find it more comfortable to pretend this will be our first pregnancy.
I'm 10dpo and this is our fourth cycle trying. I can't wait to get to know all you wonderful people - and I hope that none of us will linger here long before moving on to the pregnant forums.