HelpConfused
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I am 27, been with partner for 4 years. Our relationship is stable, and we have discussed marriage etc. We have a house, good jobs and have finished school etc too. We are currently financially stable; I wouldn't go as far to say we can afford the finer luxuries, but then, I wouldn't know if we ever would!
I have been feeling uncontrollably broody for two years now. This came out of the blue, and was not like me at all (initially in the relationship he would have been keener on marriage and kids than me). At its worst it was like an obsession. I felt depressed, sad and had this huge longing for a child. I spoke to my bf about it, and although we both want children , we should wait until our 30s. The overwhelming feeling passed, but now it is back with a vengeance and i don't know what to do! I think my bf is currently going through what I call his mid-late 20's life crisis (i.e., he feels he needs one more holiday with "the boys" etc), but every minute or every day all i think of is having a baby. I know its completely irrational, and the thought of having an accident on purpose horrifies me, but i am constantly thinking, would ti be so wrong? I wouldn't say I would go and try and try and try to get pregnant, but if it happened, it happened? Obviously, I would need to stop taking the pill for this to occur. This is just not something I ever thought I would consider. I need help!
I have been feeling uncontrollably broody for two years now. This came out of the blue, and was not like me at all (initially in the relationship he would have been keener on marriage and kids than me). At its worst it was like an obsession. I felt depressed, sad and had this huge longing for a child. I spoke to my bf about it, and although we both want children , we should wait until our 30s. The overwhelming feeling passed, but now it is back with a vengeance and i don't know what to do! I think my bf is currently going through what I call his mid-late 20's life crisis (i.e., he feels he needs one more holiday with "the boys" etc), but every minute or every day all i think of is having a baby. I know its completely irrational, and the thought of having an accident on purpose horrifies me, but i am constantly thinking, would ti be so wrong? I wouldn't say I would go and try and try and try to get pregnant, but if it happened, it happened? Obviously, I would need to stop taking the pill for this to occur. This is just not something I ever thought I would consider. I need help!