fuschia
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I have 3.5 years between my children and I feel it has been a life save having my daughter that little bit older when my son came along . However we did start to ttc when she was only 18 months , going for the smaller gap but it wasn't meant to be .
Hubby and I would like another baby but I proposed to him a timescale of not smaller that 3 years , up to about a 4 year age gap . He surprised me by suggesting we consider as small an age gap as 2 and 3 months !!
This to me sounds like it would be really hard going . I feel like waiting 1 further yearto 3 year age gap would make all the difference . But of course I know no different !
So could anyone share their opinions /experience ?
I am also about to start a 4.5 year part time primary education degree so I have 3 placements to avoid but they are well spread so that's fine. But of course I have to consider that I will need to find time to study each week too ( 5-10 hours a week)
Hubby and I would like another baby but I proposed to him a timescale of not smaller that 3 years , up to about a 4 year age gap . He surprised me by suggesting we consider as small an age gap as 2 and 3 months !!
This to me sounds like it would be really hard going . I feel like waiting 1 further yearto 3 year age gap would make all the difference . But of course I know no different !
So could anyone share their opinions /experience ?
I am also about to start a 4.5 year part time primary education degree so I have 3 placements to avoid but they are well spread so that's fine. But of course I have to consider that I will need to find time to study each week too ( 5-10 hours a week)