For those waiting until after the 20 week scan... Are you actively trying to hide the baby bump or just not acknowledging it and assuming no one is going to ask because it's rude to do so?
I'm not even 8 weeks and I'm obviously pregnant. I know it's just bloat now but it'll just turn into real bump eventually. I'd feel a little odd acting like I'm not pregnant when I obviously am... A friend never mentioned her pregnancy that was becoming very obvious when we were both pregnant with our sons. I appreciate her right to her privacy but I just felt silly acting like I couldn't see her growing belly. She's done the same with her second and it's hard not to congratulate or ask after her to see if she needs help with the toddler. But I'm not going to bring it up if she doesn't first!
Just wondering how y'all hide it for so long!