Is it bad that i want a break?

Alibeebs

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Hi folks.

I am so tired, im single mum (we see daddy on a sunday), working full time (take LO into work as i work with family) but i am just sooo tired all the time from doing everything myself and so alone from being in every night myself.

I feel like a prisoner in my house as i cant do anything when Erin is to bed and i just feel at my wits end. I love her to bits and its not her fault i just feel like i need a night away, by myself for some pampering or something.

I really feel bad that i want to get away :cry:

I need just an overnight stay somewhere to relax and unwind, something that doesnt cost the earth either. any ideas what i could do? I live in Dumfries and Galloway.

xxx
 
Hi Hun, sorry i dont know the area but didnt want to read and run. You are not wrong for wanting a break, we all do at times, you still need you time too. Maybe your little one could stay at your families house for the night and you could chill with a bath / film/ glass of wine and lots of choccy!! get a freind round. XXXx
 
I often feel like I need a break and I have hubby too, you need a bit of you time every now and then to regenerate :)

Vixy's idea is a great one, or some colleges near me have trainee rates which are really cheap for hair and massage treatments etc (where a trainee does the treatment supervised by a professional) so you could see if they do anything like that at the local colleges near you x
 
No of course not hun,we all need a break sometimes.Would your mum mind LO over night maybe once a week?That way you would get a break and time to do what ever you wanted.Also another idea why dont you ask your family would they buy you a pampering gift voucher for xmas?xxx
 
Oh hey you are near me! Our Anna was almost an Erin but she didnt suit it Lol
Can you leave her with family for a night or have someone come and stay and look after her?
I have no idea how you singe mums do it! You need a medal I am shattered and I have an OH! He works full time and is tired when he comes home so its mostly me looking after LO its me thats up and down the stairs settling her at night OH does the midnight feed so I can get a little bit extra sleep but I am up wi her at 6am.

I hopefully have my sister staying on sat we have a family party and either sister is staying in to watch the kids or OH is staying in and we will go for a fw drins and play some pool :)
 

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