is it bad that..

[Laura--x]

i don't go and see oh's family anymore?

I used to be down theirs all the time before i was pregnant, but since being pregnant i quite frankly cant be arsed! I like being in the comfort of my own home and tbh just can't be bothered with them atm!

The whole pregnancy his mum has complained about me not going down, saying shes disapointed in me and theres no excuse why i dont see them because she offers to drop and pick me up.

I just don't want to go down! Matts at college 4 days a week anyway, she still wants me to go down whilst hes at college though to see her.

Am i bad for not going down? Am i being rude and disrespectful?

 

[Jemma_x]

I wouldnt say your being rude and disrespectful hun, at the end of the day your pregnant and if were honest no-one wants to do much when there pregnant. I dont anyway, most of time i just lay in bed all day or im at least in house, like you say i like being in the comfort of my own house. If she wants to see you that much couldnt she come up and see you hun??

 

[Serene123]

I think it'd do you some good to spend some time with his mum.. Even if you just try it?

 

[hayley x]

yeh, it mite make u feel better for going out the house for a bit?? Most of the time I can't be bothered to do anything but actually feel much better once out. Maybe she is worried that as you kinda stopped contact she won't see her grandchild much? At the end of the day its up to you what u want to do xxx

 

[loopy lucy]

its up to you what you do really, 2bh, i have no choice but to go to my OH's moms house because Ellie goes there in the day when Craig and me are both at work, usually i end up either picking her up or taking her, depends on shifts, Craig works 9-30 till 4-30 and i work either 8-3, 3-10 or 8am till 10pm. Ellie loves it when i work all day because daddy spoils her haha, she thinks its even better now that we have got Amy all week due to half term because it means daddy will take them somewere nice tomorrow because im at work all day and also because she got someone to play with all the time haha.

 

[tasha41]

Well, since she offers to come pick you up and drop you off at home again, I think you should take her up on the offer.. sometimes. Don't feel obliged to go every day that she offers, but it can't hurt right! I'd love to go over to my boyfriend's somedays, I get so lonely at home by myself.. but I do understand where you're coming from about wanting to be at my own house.. every day is a "lazy day" for me if I'm not working LOL I sleep in late and lounge around all day. Otherwise I'd probably be in bed by 6:30 LOL