Is it normal to feel like this?

[zowiey]

We had our 2nd fs appt yesterday, we are going to be reffered in June, once I've lost 10lbs. Hubby has to have a swim up analysis, and that will determine whether we need iui or ivf with icsi. We should be starting treatment in August, so everything is moving forward, and fingers crossed looking positive.

But now I feel sick to my stomach, I've been an emotional wreck all day, and just really feel like everything has come crashing down around me. I'm not sure I can cope with the treatment, purely because I don't know if I'm strong enough to cope with it failing. I know I should be happy we're moving forward, and that we will still be able to have one attempt on the nhs. But I'm terrified.

So did anyone else feel like this once they had the go ahead to start treatment? I was fine before yesterday, I was dealing with it all quite well and being quite rational about everything, but today I'm a mess.

 

[beadyeyes]

I honestly feel exactly the same. When we had our appointment I was positive for a day, then was upset at the prospect of it not working, like the potential to fail is closer if that makes sense xxx

 

[MrsBrooks]

After my 2nd FS appointment, I cried for about at least 6 hours straight. I just couldnt stop. Everyone just said its because it such an overwhelming thing to find out you are going to hopefully be getting what you want and to also know the long process ahead aswell as more time to wait.

It has to be one on the most bizarre feeling and i couldnt explain it properly to anyone but it is defiantly overwhelming.

You do just have to look to the positive. A week on from our appointment and i do feel better thank god.

I hope your ok x x