Is it ok if I come in???

[susan_1981]

I think I belong over here moreso than TTC. Me and my husband started TTC last August when I came off the pill. I fell pregnant in the October (so not long - on my 3rd cycle), went for my 12 week scan and found out I'd had a MMC. That was on 23 December. Needless to say, I had the worst xmas ever!!! So basically, had to have an ERPC on 29 December. Waited for the bleeding to stop and then started trying again. I'm now on my 9th cycle, approaching my 10th (started spotting today after getting faint lines on ICs which are obviously false positives - FRER is BFN). So I'm fed up with being over in TTC and seeing everyone come and go so quickly.

I think I'd feel better over here so I'll probably be popping in from now on if you'll have me xxx

 

[MrsJD]

Susan,

I agree with you about the ICs they are totally crap

XXX

 

[x_Rainbow_x]

Welcome to the dark side

 

[tansey]

Hi Susan :wave:
I remember you from ages ago - well you've probably been around just i'm never over in TTC!
Good luck hun!

 

[susan_1981]

Thanks girls. Hi Tansey. Yes I remember your name. I think I'm better off over here. Everyone just seems to come and go over in TTC and I'm sick of the envy I feel for everyone of them. It's not healthy! So I'm over here now. I so didn't want to come over here, but I'm sure all ladies here feel exactly the same so hopefully I (and all of you) won't be here for much longer xxx

 

[puppymom32]

Hi Susan I pop between both side here and there and it is rough hearing some of them complain about waiting 3 month and nothing. Last months 49 BFP almost did me in I was like are you kidding me. Happy for them but just jealous I can be one of them. Sorry you had to join us Lttc but you are very welcom.

 

[JASMAK]

Welcome Susan. I hope that you get your BFP very soon. x0

 

[Sambatiki]

Hi Susan

Welcome to LTTC! Im sorry that you are over here

Hope that your stay is short and sweet xxx

 

[Widger]

Hi Susan - hope you are ok? I know how you feel, been over a year TTC with mcs thrown in for good measure so don't know if I fit in here (as not TTC for as long as most on here) or on TTC forum. I've just been flitting between the two.

Thought I was pregnant last month due to symptoms etc and nothing. I was seriously gutted and listening to some people get their BFP after one month is hard to take!

Have you spoken to your doctor about next steps etc? I've had lots of tests due to recurrent mcs and all clear but my OH is going to docs on Monday to talk about what tests he can have and then we'll work from there.

Hope you get your BFP this month xx

 

[Maidenet]

Hiya huni xxxx

 

[susan_1981]

Thanks everyone. No haven't been to the doctors yet but I plan on booking an appointment this week. I think the sooner I make my doctors aware of what is going on then the sooner I can get my BFP again!!! Was tempted to go back on the pill this month but I don't want to automatically count a month out - although I didn't plan to start taking it until my period finishes which would mean I'm not covered but then I worried in case it stops me ovulating which it does for some. I'll have a word with my doctors and see what they say. Don't want to go back on it if they don't think it's a good idea.

I know what you mean about over in TTC. There was one girl on there who was taking a break becausse she hadn't fallen pregnant within 4 months! Honestly, if I was only on cycle 4, I wouldn't be worried, but cycle 10 it is for me now and I'm pretty sure I ovulate and we time our babymaking well (although not every month, we might miss a day or two) so I'm sure something's up.

Hopefully my stay here will be short and sweet, though I doubt it xxx