is it sad that......

[celestek89]

... i see you guys as being more of my friends then my actual friends?

I dont even talk to many of you, but somehow i feel closer to you lol.....i just got a call that my so called best friend was bad mouthing me..she used to say that she'd never judge me for anything i'd done and she'd always love me regardless, and i believed that. But now im not so sure. None of my friends bother with me, they dont call, they dont reply to my messages, and its really getting me down. Im moving to the other side of the country in less then 2 weeks and i've been trying to organise to see people before i leave, and no one has replied..Surely im not that bad of a friend?! I mean i have made mistakes in the past, and i've paid for them. I feel so down and alone.

At least OH is home soon..I'm sorry for the pointless thread, you guys dont have to reply, i just really wanted to get it out

 

[jenny_wren]

its not sad ....

ive got more online friends than real friends ....

some of my real friends are those i met on here lol

when i was pregnant i found out who my true friends were
and the good one's i still see, the shite one's i told where to go!

you'll make new friends i promise, ones that can relate
to you and like you for you even with a bump or a baby!
pregnancy's pretty lonely ... you should try and get to some baby groups
or teen mum type groups and you can be lonely together lol



xxx​

 

[x-Lovee-x]

This will make you see who are your true friends! You dont need
people like that in your life! Jenny is right your make new friends
Atleast you tryed to see them & made the effort! Its there loss! Keep
smiling, you have so much to look forward too x

 

[nicholatmn]

I have more online friends than real friends too! I have 288 facebook friends... but like... only 40 of them I actually know... and most are family members!!

 

[Croc-O-Dile]

I'm the same way, hon. I just posted a thread not long ago about how I was making my baby shower guest list and kept trying to put people from BnB on it.
I think we all understand eachother better than our non-pregnant/parenting friends.

Good luck with your move! I'd advise you to get involved as much as possible with any groups or meets the have for young parents in your new town. I moved around 20 weeks and at first it was okay, but I'm almost an hour away from everyone I know, and I don't know anybody here, so it gets lonely.

Have you looked up if there are any groups or clubs you'd be interested in there?

 

[katekatekate]

I dont feel like I have any legit friends. Friends say they're going to visit but noone has. I havent seen my 'best friend' since before Christmas. I constantly feel down about it. My OH is my best friend, I wouldnt be anything without him. I'd have a meltdown.

 

[AngelzTears]

I kinda feel the same way. I moved away and no one came to see me before I headed off. I live in a really cool town now, so they said they'd come hang out in town with me if they were around the area. Then I announced I was pregnant, and now no one will visit me, even if they're in my town. It's hard because I've always been super nice with everyone, and I had so many friends before I got together with my OH. After I got together with him though my friends have continued to dwindle til now there's basically no one left.

 

[QuintinsMommy]

I feel the same way hun,
I don't know what I would do with out my BnB friends tbh

 

[LovingYou]

I'm the same about this. I literally go on BnB every day all day and feel like you guys are my only friends. No one ever hangs out with me or sees me, the only people I'm in constant contact with is you girls. I don't know what I would do without you!

 

[miquelsmommy]

i have friends tht have children so its okay; but i hate it when they all judqe me abt me and my OH's relationship. i feel more comfortable tlknq on here than to them . smh love you quys =]

 

[celestek89]

well i feel a bit better about everything then, im glad im not the only one! I didnt realise being pregnant was going to be so lonely!! Thanks for all your replies xox

 

[Maddiee]

no, not sad at all.
most of mine are on here too.

 

[katekatekate]

Being a parent is lonelier. Noone cares about you anymore. You arent important or on the verge of shitting out a beautiful baby.