Is it still possible ...? (TMI alert)

It is still possible to have sex whilst you have a big bump. Just not so much with the usual missionary position.

Try you on top or spooning as I've found them the most comfortable at the mo. Though you might be different so use this as a chance to try out different positions.

As for if he still fancies you. I'm sure he does. I haven't met a man that hasn't found his OH more attractive with a bump than he did before.

Try talking to him and see where he stands. It might just be a case of him not wanting to make you uncomfortable because he doesn't quite grasp how sex can work whilst you have a bump.

 

I think some men are sometimes weird about it as they are scared of hurting baby, i dont think its cuz he would find you less attractive but i know what you mean by that as i feel sooo unatractive atm with my bump & hate being naked infront of the OH but he has said to me that him & most men love a big baby bump as they know its their baby in there

Try talking to him about it & see what he says x

 

spoonings probably best when you get really big just jump on him hes probably scared to touch you men are under the illusion we might shatter like glass when were pregnant if they lay a finger on us your have to make the first move he will get over it very quickly once you get going lol x

 

we are on a sex ban

but with my last we were at it like rabbits all time till my waters leaked at 29 weeks while dtd after that we were scared incase it ahppened again

xx

 

I'm sure he'll still want to make love to you! Maybe you've just slid into a habit of not doing it, but that's easy enough to break! If he doesn't seem particularly interested I'd try coaxing him into it with some oral sex or something like that.

 

I agree but when yr further along going on top isnt so comfortable either I stopped doing that at 24 weeks spooning is def the most comfortable for us though its a bit of trial and error and oh would prefer a deeper position though some women have said doggy style but i am now at the point where bending is uncomfortable, good luck and there is always intamicy without intercourse xx

 

Spooning is really intimate too.. I love spooning. I'm not a big fan of doggie (even though, that is how we made Connor.. haha) Going on top is fun, but it gives me cramps and hurts?? When my DH gets home from CA when I'm 27 weeks, I'm interested to see how we manage.. I'm thinking the spooning Like I said, very intimate and comfortable.