Is it still possible ...? (TMI alert)

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  1. CeeCee2010

    CeeCee2010 Mummy to Jessica xxx

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    Is it still possible to :sex: when you have a big bump? Mine seems to expand by the day and DH and I haven't :sex: since we found out we were expecting... :blush: I'm finding it hard because we haven't really had much intimacy in the last couple of months other than the odd fumble iykwim :cry: I'm worried that he doesn't fancy his rhino of a wife anymore as he won't even suggest it. He said in the beginning it was because he was worried we would mc but surely now we should be able to..? Sorry I know its TMI and don't worry if you don't want to reply X
     
  2. alienbabe4321

    alienbabe4321 Mummy to gorgeous Louis

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    It is still possible to have sex whilst you have a big bump. Just not so much with the usual missionary position.

    Try you on top or spooning as I've found them the most comfortable at the mo. Though you might be different so use this as a chance to try out different positions.

    As for if he still fancies you. I'm sure he does. I haven't met a man that hasn't found his OH more attractive with a bump than he did before.

    Try talking to him and see where he stands. It might just be a case of him not wanting to make you uncomfortable because he doesn't quite grasp how sex can work whilst you have a bump.
     
  3. CeeCee2010

    CeeCee2010 Mummy to Jessica xxx

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    It's probably me just being highly emotional, just miss being close to him if that makes sense. Thanks for answering though, very sweet of you to throw some advice my way :) X
     
  4. KeirasMummy.

    KeirasMummy. Expecting A Little Girl

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    I think some men are sometimes weird about it as they are scared of hurting baby, i dont think its cuz he would find you less attractive but i know what you mean by that as i feel sooo unatractive atm with my bump & hate being naked infront of the OH but he has said to me that him & most men love a big baby bump as they know its their baby in there :)

    Try talking to him about it & see what he says x
     
  5. miss cakes

    miss cakes Well-Known Member

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    spoonings probably best when you get really big just jump on him hes probably scared to touch you men are under the illusion we might shatter like glass when were pregnant if they lay a finger on us your have to make the first move he will get over it very quickly once you get going :) lol x
     
  6. tessica123

    tessica123 Well-Known Member

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    we are on a sex ban :-(

    but with my last we were at it like rabbits all time till my waters leaked at 29 weeks while dtd after that we were scared incase it ahppened again

    xx
     
  7. CeeCee2010

    CeeCee2010 Mummy to Jessica xxx

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    Thank you for the advice ladies. I just miss being close to him but maybe I should talk to him and if all else fails just jump on him? I know he loves me, I really do, Just I want him to fancy me too! Like you said though it's probably because he thinks I'll break! Thanks for replying, very sweet of you all X
     
  8. Lizzeh

    Lizzeh Aurora <3

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    I'm sure he'll still want to make love to you! Maybe you've just slid into a habit of not doing it, but that's easy enough to break! If he doesn't seem particularly interested I'd try coaxing him into it with some oral sex or something like that. :laugh2:
     
  9. CeeCee2010

    CeeCee2010 Mummy to Jessica xxx

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    Thanks hun, I guess part of it could be habit and neither of us wanting to suggest it incase we get shot down which seems rather silly really! Lol I like the suggestion and I'm sure my DH would love the advice you've just given me lol X
     
  10. spring_baby

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    I agree but when yr further along going on top isnt so comfortable either I stopped doing that at 24 weeks spooning is def the most comfortable for us though its a bit of trial and error and oh would prefer a deeper position though some women have said doggy style but i am now at the point where bending is uncomfortable, good luck and there is always intamicy without intercourse xx
     
  11. LHill2010

    LHill2010 Well-Known Member

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    Spooning is really intimate too.. I love spooning. I'm not a big fan of doggie (even though, that is how we made Connor.. haha) Going on top is fun, but it gives me cramps and hurts?? When my DH gets home from CA when I'm 27 weeks, I'm interested to see how we manage.. I'm thinking the spooning :) Like I said, very intimate and comfortable.
     

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