Is it stupid to feel awfully worried

[MadamRose]

Hi ladies, i am currently 4+6 pregnant. I had a MMC in 2009, then when on to have a daughter in october 2010. However i'm so scared again this time round that i will have another MMC.

I carried until 11 weeks before bleeding started and baby had died at 6weeks the first time round, I am so scared it will happen again and that i will find out at the 12 week scan.

With DD i had bleeding at 5, 6 and 7 weeks, so i got hgc levels by blood tests at 5 weeks to cheak they doubled and a scan at 7 weeks so i felt reasuered. However this time i have a feeling i won't get anything until my 12 week scan and i'm so worried something will be wrong. Then i feel stupid for feeling worried as i have perfectly healthy DD.

 

[iiTTCii]

I'm the same. I had a m/c 9 weeks ago and found out yesterday that I'm 4 weeks pregnant. I'm scared to death that it will happen again. I don't want to even tell parents etc as I'm scared something will happen.

 

[MadamRose]

I'm the same. I had a m/c 9 weeks ago and found out yesterday that I'm 4 weeks pregnant. I'm scared to death that it will happen again. I don't want to even tell parents etc as I'm scared something will happen.

Sticky dust for you i've just started a pal due in september thread if you wanna join that.

I am like you i didnt want to tell anyone and still don't until 12 weeks but MIL guessed bloating is making me look as big. i've gone from size 10 to 14 already

 

[iiTTCii]

I'm the same. I had a m/c 9 weeks ago and found out yesterday that I'm 4 weeks pregnant. I'm scared to death that it will happen again. I don't want to even tell parents etc as I'm scared something will happen.

Sticky dust for you i've just started a pal due in september thread if you wanna join that.

I am like you i didnt want to tell anyone and still don't until 12 weeks but MIL guessed bloating is making me look as big. i've gone from size 10 to 14 already

Haha.. That's brilliant!! I don't feel bloated at all yet. I can't wait till I get a bump. At the moment I do not feel pregnant at all apart from occasional twitches near my belly button. Good luck to you c

 

[MadamRose]

I'm the same. I had a m/c 9 weeks ago and found out yesterday that I'm 4 weeks pregnant. I'm scared to death that it will happen again. I don't want to even tell parents etc as I'm scared something will happen.

Sticky dust for you i've just started a pal due in september thread if you wanna join that.

I am like you i didnt want to tell anyone and still don't until 12 weeks but MIL guessed bloating is making me look as big. i've gone from size 10 to 14 already

Haha.. That's brilliant!! I don't feel bloated at all yet. I can't wait till I get a bump. At the moment I do not feel pregnant at all apart from occasional twitches near my belly button. Good luck to you c

Yes it's nice to me to see it, but not when other people can guess, i don't want that until i've had my 12 week scan.

I feel bad for wishing my pregnancy away but i can't wait to get to that 12 week point

 

[mwaah]

I feel bad for wishing my pregnancy away but i can't wait to get to that 12 week point

I know how you feel. I really can't get excited. I dread going to the loo and seeing blood. I'm sure you have a sticky one there. I had a MMC at 10 weeks but baby died at just over 8 weeks.
So getting to the 12 week scan will be a huge blessing.

It's normal and until you hold that baby I think you are going to worry the whole time, I know I am. xxxx

 

[MadamRose]

Yes i worried with every tiny thing with dd, but a tiny bit less after that 12 week scan.
sticky dust for you

 

[stanaldo1]

I'm the same. I had a m/c 9 weeks ago and found out yesterday that I'm 4 weeks pregnant. I'm scared to death that it will happen again. I don't want to even tell parents etc as I'm scared something will happen.

Hi There, i understand how you are feeling i have only just oined his forhum as no one else really understands i have had 1 complete miscarriage and 1 mmc also i do not have any children and feel this is my last chance now, every twinge or ache im looking it up lol!! i am so scared xxxx how are you feeling ??xxxx

 

[Rayna]

I also feel worried all the time. My biggest concern however is missed mc. There is really no symptoms like cramping and bleeding. The dead baby can stay for four weeks inside you. I had tender breasts up to 7.5 weeks and it dissapeared, but breast are still full and nipples veiny. However, apart from going to the bathroom 4x a night, there is no other symptoms.

I am worrying to the point that I can't enjoy the pregnancy. To make it worse, a friend is also pregnant, but because we're worried we keep ours quiet. If I have a mc again, I don't know how I will cope seeing the friend having a normal baby. The first time I had a mc another friend was also pregnant. Hope not history will be repeating itself. Have been trying for 5 years now.

My scan is 7 Jan then I will be 10 weeks, am feeling quite low at the moment.

 

[MadamRose]

I also feel worried all the time. My biggest concern however is missed mc. There is really no symptoms like cramping and bleeding. The dead baby can stay for four weeks inside you. I had tender breasts up to 7.5 weeks and it dissapeared, but breast are still full and nipples veiny. However, apart from going to the bathroom 4x a night, there is no other symptoms.

I am worrying to the point that I can't enjoy the pregnancy. To make it worse, a friend is also pregnant, but because we're worried we keep ours quiet. If I have a mc again, I don't know how I will cope seeing the friend having a normal baby. The first time I had a mc another friend was also pregnant. Hope not history will be repeating itself. Have been trying for 5 years now.

My scan is 7 Jan then I will be 10 weeks, am feeling quite low at the moment.

Yes mine was a MMC which is why i worry so much, our bubs died at 7 i didn't bleed until 11

I just wish i got a early scan because of this as i don't think i could cope with that again

 

[MamaTex]

I am approaching 8 weeks and worried that I won't make it to the 11 week scan or I will get there with my husband only to find out that we lost the baby awhile back!!! It is so scary but everything has been fine so far, so I have to keep thinking it will be!!! I can totally relate OP!!

 

[Zebra2023]

I am finding it really hard after 4 miscarriages. I hope everything goes well for you

 

[MadamRose]

I am finding it really hard after 4 miscarriages. I hope everything goes well for you

Same for you

 

[Zebra2023]

Thank you