Aidan's Mummy
Mummy to Aidan and Oliver
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So as you all know I moved out of my parents in august due to a very stressful and sometimes volatile enviroment for aidan to live in due to the behaviour of my dad. Me and y dad have alwasy had an up down realtionship but I do love him. And we have become so close over the last few months.
Anyway I wanted to put my Christmas decorations this weekend after aidans birthday. So on sunday night I put them all up and aidans face was a picture. He couldnt take his eyes off the tree.
Anyway My dad has always waited till Chirstmas eve to put his decorations up. That fair enough. But I put mine up 11 days before. It cheered me up and made it feel like christmas was coming
Anyway every sunday we take turns to make sunday dinner. This week was my turn. My dad and mum came. I was talking to mum about the decorations and he said he was leaving. He said that he was fed up of christmas being shoved down his throat when its not even chirsmas and he cant even come to my house to escape it. So I let him go not wanting an argument. Bearing in mind his dinner was now wasted, but mum stayed
He then rang me later that night and said he isnt celebrating Christmas this year. We were all going out for a meal but now he isnt coming just me james aidan and mum can go. He isnt giving presents and he doesnt want any. And he doesnt want to hear from me at the moment
Just because I put decorations up.
I am sick of it he always has his tantrums hurts people and then expects to come back
So yeah should I take them down and apoligise of is he in the wrong?
xx
Anyway I wanted to put my Christmas decorations this weekend after aidans birthday. So on sunday night I put them all up and aidans face was a picture. He couldnt take his eyes off the tree.
Anyway My dad has always waited till Chirstmas eve to put his decorations up. That fair enough. But I put mine up 11 days before. It cheered me up and made it feel like christmas was coming
Anyway every sunday we take turns to make sunday dinner. This week was my turn. My dad and mum came. I was talking to mum about the decorations and he said he was leaving. He said that he was fed up of christmas being shoved down his throat when its not even chirsmas and he cant even come to my house to escape it. So I let him go not wanting an argument. Bearing in mind his dinner was now wasted, but mum stayed
He then rang me later that night and said he isnt celebrating Christmas this year. We were all going out for a meal but now he isnt coming just me james aidan and mum can go. He isnt giving presents and he doesnt want any. And he doesnt want to hear from me at the moment
Just because I put decorations up.
I am sick of it he always has his tantrums hurts people and then expects to come back
So yeah should I take them down and apoligise of is he in the wrong?
xx