Hi everyone!
This is now our 3rd month of ttc, had a CP in July and BFN this month - boo.
I had planned to start temping and using OPKs if we didn't get t lucky in August, but having spoken to my OH about it last night he's dead against such a scientific approach so early on. He thinks it's better to not think about it all too much as it makes it more stressful and he has a point as I have a tendency to get worried. He also doesn't want to feel pressurised to perform on certain days but would prefer to keep things more spontaneous. Unfortunately our sex life isn't frequent enough to just leave it for the nature to take its course.
So I was wondering what's the best approach to take..
Do you think it's ok to go about it without temping? I know that there's no way to actually confirm that I ovulate without temping.
I have downloaded the FF app and it seems to give a pretty clear idea about the ovulation window. I also tend to have quite abundant EWCM which helps to define the right time frame. I thought I could perhaps use OPKs without OH knowing, but then again not sure if there is much point as they don't confirm ovulation anyway.
I suppose I can't really temp without OH knowing and of course he has a point of not getting too stressed about the whole thing.
Anyone else here who has chosen not to temp? Is there anything else you do to maximise your chances?
Any supplements or anything to boost things for instance? We're taking pregnacare conception his+hers but nothing else.
Any thoughts much appreciated.
This is now our 3rd month of ttc, had a CP in July and BFN this month - boo.
I had planned to start temping and using OPKs if we didn't get t lucky in August, but having spoken to my OH about it last night he's dead against such a scientific approach so early on. He thinks it's better to not think about it all too much as it makes it more stressful and he has a point as I have a tendency to get worried. He also doesn't want to feel pressurised to perform on certain days but would prefer to keep things more spontaneous. Unfortunately our sex life isn't frequent enough to just leave it for the nature to take its course.
So I was wondering what's the best approach to take..
Do you think it's ok to go about it without temping? I know that there's no way to actually confirm that I ovulate without temping.
I have downloaded the FF app and it seems to give a pretty clear idea about the ovulation window. I also tend to have quite abundant EWCM which helps to define the right time frame. I thought I could perhaps use OPKs without OH knowing, but then again not sure if there is much point as they don't confirm ovulation anyway.
I suppose I can't really temp without OH knowing and of course he has a point of not getting too stressed about the whole thing.
Anyone else here who has chosen not to temp? Is there anything else you do to maximise your chances?
Any supplements or anything to boost things for instance? We're taking pregnacare conception his+hers but nothing else.
Any thoughts much appreciated.