It looks like this isn't the month again :(

[Corinna N]

So I'm about 98% sure that I'm not pregnant I'm thinking that AF will arrive within the next 2 days. It's getting more and more frustrating. I feel like I did everything right this month so why didn't things work out? I feel like crying. Every month it doesn't happen I start to worry more and more about what if something is wrong. I hate dealing with disappointment every month.

 

[Flutterbabies]

Feel exactly the same. Sat here getting the tell tale cramps. Another cycle down the pan!

Hugs to you. Hopefully next time round will be our turn.

 

[doopersgurl]

aw sorry hun
i know how you feel i got 3 days till af is here but i been having cramps today so i not to positive either after 1 mc and 9 months of ttc its very hard but you just need to remember it will happen when the time is right and that we are all here for you

 

[Peanut Love]

I'm about 3-5 days from AF and I know how you feel. However, I am trying to stay really positive about next month. I just finished reading, "Taking Charge of Your Fertility" and I feel really good about the control I have over pregnancy (Assuming I don't have any fertility issues). I suggest reading it. If anything, you feel more in control.

I am hoping that AF holds off and that this is your BFP month!!

Happy baby thoughts!!!

 

[AMN21]

AF just showed its ugly face to me today You still have a couple more days so keep your head up! And if AF shows, hopefully Ocober will be the month! It will happen for us soon enough! I know its hard to stay positive but thats why its so nice being on this website! But right now, I find Ben & Jerrys is always comforting! hehe!

 

[kazmo9085]

Hey hun, Us women are all given the gift and ability to have a baby, and we shall all have ours one day, i am too ttc, and have been for a long time now, its very frustrating and can put alot of pressure on us women and our men. I have been thinking of ways in which could help and maximise our chances. Through friends and family members, and even the internet i have learned that stress and just the thought of trying can damper the whole situation of ttc.

There fore i have now decided to not stress, and pretend im not trying. This is exactly what my friend and family member done to concieve their children. So it goes to show that it works.

To All Those Who Are TTC....Here's My Advice!

-Take a short break or holiday with you partner of course
-On that break ensure you are near the ovualtion time
-enjoy yourself, and make love, forget that your trying for a baby
-dont pressure yourself!
-or you partner
-Have more "me" time

Your garaunteed to be more stress free, and who knows it might help us all to concieve, me myself, havent gotten around to tracking my ovulation this month, due to having 2 episodes of bleeding within 4 weeks =/ but am waiting to do it next month

Gooodluck ladiesss

** Baby dust to all **

 

[ms. sosa]

I feel the exact same way you do. You said you feel like crying, I actully cry! I am constantly worried that there is something wrong with me too. For me, no advice or kind words make me feel any better, but please know that others feel the same way you do. I wish you all the luck in the world. Lets shoot for October!! Keep me posted on how everything goes.

 

[ms. sosa]

Forgot to ask, how long have you been trying?

 

[SnowGal]

I felt really defeated when the witch showed her uglyness last week. I'm now feeling slightly more positive as October holds many fun things...

 

[Corinna N]

This was my 8th month trying, but there was a gap in there. We tried for 5 months then took a break when I started my new job to avoid having a baby during my first year there, and now we've tried for 3 months again. I did really good at staying positive all month, it's just the end of the month when I learn that I'm not pregnant that I have a hard time for a day or so. AF did arrive today. I've got myself through the worst of it now I think for this month. The first thing I do after AF arrives is determine what my new due date would be if this is the month I get pregnant so that it seems like a glimmer of hope. So lets hope for a July 2 baby now!

 

[Mrsh2007]

I'm sorry. You still have a couple of days. Try to stay positive (I know it is hard). If sept is not your month.. hopefully oct is! Good luck keep us posted.

 

[AMN21]

This was my 8th month trying, but there was a gap in there. We tried for 5 months then took a break when I started my new job to avoid having a baby during my first year there, and now we've tried for 3 months again. I did really good at staying positive all month, it's just the end of the month when I learn that I'm not pregnant that I have a hard time for a day or so. AF did arrive today. I've got myself through the worst of it now I think for this month. The first thing I do after AF arrives is determine what my new due date would be if this is the month I get pregnant so that it seems like a glimmer of hope. So lets hope for a July 2 baby now!

Thats exactly what I've been telling myself since AF showed...think about the new due date. My birthday is July 4th so maybe I will get lucky and be blessed in October and have my baby around my bday! I'm glad your feeling positive again. Fingers crossed for us all!!