its happening again.. bleeding mc no 4....

I am so sorry this is happening to you again. Are you going to get tests done now to see if there is something causing the miscarriages? No amount of words can make you feel any better but :hug: Take care of yourself :hugs:
 
Oh no! I'm so sorry to hear that! Life is too cruel :cry:

Please take care of yourself and I hope that they will run some really thorough tests for you.
 
Doc, I'm so sorry. I wish there was something that would take away the heartbreak.
:hugs: Be sure to take care of yourself and get a lot of rest.
All my best. Anything I can do, let me know. We're all here for you girl...
Be strong.
:hugs:
 
Hi that's really sad, I'm sorry. I understand that they investigate if this happens twice, so let's hope they find the cause soon. x
 
So sorry for your loss hun, you really dont deserve this. xxx HuGs
 
Ohhhh Doc not again .

Hun iam so sorry for yours and hubbys losses , Unfair is an understatment .

II will keep every thing crossed today for a miracle for you on that scan . xxxxxxxxxx.
 
I am so very very sorry to hear your news Doc. My thoughts are with you both. xxx
 
You poor, poor sweetie. :hugs: I can't imagine how it feels to have this happen again. Once was bad enough. Please do ask for some tests though, because you deserve to know why this keeps happening. xx
 
so sorry this is happening to you, i have experienced 3 myself. it takes courage to try again and you try and stay positive. i cant use the words i want to because i feel so angry for you. i couldn't possible type them. i dont want to tell you it will be ok because i dont know, but i hope your wrong.

you will cope with this, even if you think you wont the strength will come, just take time for yourself now.

your my thougths and prayers
 
UPDATE....

scan today- saw a gestation sac which is right size for gestation.. problem is there is a huge haemtoma next to it which is twice the size of the sac...which is the source of the bleed... in all likelyhood the bleed is the start of mc and the consultant doesnt feel positive that this is going to be a good outcome... i'm still bleedin and we need to do a scan again next week but it would genuinely be a miracle for it to be ok...

i cant hope anymore.. i can barely cope... i was an idiot to believe that it would be ok when we got the bfp.. how dare i hope for a normal pregnancy??? how dare i even think it might be ok??? i feel i'm being punished for something i've done wrong and somehow this is no less than i deserve... i never thought there would be a time where i would be 30, childless and skint and no hope of having a family in the future... it feels so so hopeless....

how do i get through the next week till i have the scan?? i know its going to end in mc so i want it finished asap so i can move on... then how do i pick myself back up??? how do i move on????

if my hubby earned ok money our timing wouldnt be a problem... i could take my time and we could just see when it happened... if we cant pay the mortgage we go under so unless he is earning the same as me we cant have babies without having maternity benefits. When i finish this job in the summer i'm unlikely to find a permenant job and the maternity benefits go with it (takes an average few years to get smething more permenant hence 3-4 years)....

the blood tests are all normal so there nothing more that they can do...no more avenues to explore and no more options.. i could have further genetic tests but it would only help to do preimplantation diagnostics which would be private and need IVF... we dont have money for private stuff and neither of us feels we could go through an IVF process so we have reached the end of the line...

i've asked for re-referral to St mary's but my consultant is reluctant to do that.....its a case of try again and wait to have another mc......the sats are against this happening for us.. with every miscarriage the chance of having a normal pregnancy reduces... so this is the end of the line for us....
 
UPDATE....

scan today- saw a gestation sac which is right size for gestation.. problem is there is a huge haemtoma next to it which is twice the size of the sac...which is the source of the bleed... in all likelyhood the bleed is the start of mc and the consultant doesnt feel positive that this is going to be a good outcome... i'm still bleedin and we need to do a scan again next week but it would genuinely be a miracle for it to be ok...

i cant hope anymore.. i can barely cope... i was an idiot to believe that it would be ok when we got the bfp.. how dare i hope for a normal pregnancy??? how dare i even think it might be ok??? i feel i'm being punished for something i've done wrong and somehow this is no less than i deserve... i never thought there would be a time where i would be 30, childless and skint and no hope of having a family in the future... it feels so so hopeless....

how do i get through the next week till i have the scan?? i know its going to end in mc so i want it finished asap so i can move on... then how do i pick myself back up??? how do i move on????

if my hubby earned ok money our timing wouldnt be a problem... i could take my time and we could just see when it happened... if we cant pay the mortgage we go under so unless he is earning the same as me we cant have babies without having maternity benefits. When i finish this job in the summer i'm unlikely to find a permenant job and the maternity benefits go with it (takes an average few years to get smething more permenant hence 3-4 years)....

the blood tests are all normal so there nothing more that they can do...no more avenues to explore and no more options.. i could have further genetic tests but it would only help to do preimplantation diagnostics which would be private and need IVF... we dont have money for private stuff and neither of us feels we could go through an IVF process so we have reached the end of the line...

i've asked for re-referral to St mary's but my consultant is reluctant to do that.....its a case of try again and wait to have another mc......the sats are against this happening for us.. with every miscarriage the chance of having a normal pregnancy reduces... so this is the end of the line for us....

thats what im having and they havent told me its private. they do it in 5 clinics over the Uk. the genetics testing is worth while you no. i had them all.
 
Hi hun :hug:

So sorry to read of your situation :( I know you don't want to hope too much, but I thought I;d let you know....
When I was pregnant with Mia.... it was twins to start with. I bled very heavily, and when I went for a scan, they saw that one of the sack was dissappearing. Then everything seemed ok for about a week. I then had another heavy bleed, an when they scanned me again, I had a haematoma right next to Mia. They said it was left over from the twin......

Just a thought.

My thoughts are with you at this horrible waiting time :hug:
 
thank you everybody.. you are all so so kind.. feeling very very blue but ok you know.. i'll ask again about karyotyping.....i'm signed off work again for 2 weeks as i jsut cant deal with it all right now....
 
Just wanted to say I'm so sorry for all of your losses and I hope someday you can get a lil heathly bean. Take care of yourself...you and hubby are in my thoughts and prayers.
 

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