It's just not fair..

[bluidgrl87]

I wouldn't say i get bitchy per say, but i deff get aggravated cause my husband doesn't understand how i feel, he is like hey we will have sex and if we get pregnant thats great and if we don't oh well maybe next time....he doesn't understand what it does to me and all the things that come with ttc...especially the money part!

 

[AMN21]

Its so selfish & rude of me but my boyfriends bestfriend and his girlfriend of almost 2 months and JUST turned 18 and are pregnant and we've been trying since December and yet to get pregnant. What's wrong with me, why can't I be a mom and have that.. I'm so unbelievably jealous I have a knot in my throat to just cry and I keep telling myself how selfish I am because if that day comes I'd want people to be happy for me.. :/

My sister is due in Novemeber and of course I am excited and she deserves it probably more than anyone but I can't help but feel a pang of jealousy when we hang out. We just went shopping all day for her baby the other day and I felt like such a loser tearing up in Buy Buy Baby lol. I know my time will come but sometimes I feel like my dang BFP just can't get here fast enough!!!

 

[bluidgrl87]

man i do that too...

 

[Xhappychickx]

I am supposedly 2 weeks and 4 days overdue and done test and still not pregnant I am spending all my money on tests apps for my I phone to help it's killing me! xx

 

[AMN21]

I am supposedly 2 weeks and 4 days overdue and done test and still not pregnant I am spending all my money on tests apps for my I phone to help it's killing me! xx

Did you call your doctor? Usually they'll see you after your 2 weeks late. good luck! Hope this is it for you!

 

[greenpear]

You know what else is crappy? Conceiving after a year of trying only to lose it several weeks later. Then you go around looking at pregnant bellies and your envy is completely different - why can they carry their babies to full term with no problems and you can't?

Either way, I know how you feel - I hate that jealousy feeling but sometimes it's so hard to stay positive. I guess that is why we are human

 

[AMN21]

You know what else is crappy? Conceiving after a year of trying only to lose it several weeks later. Then you go around looking at pregnant bellies and your envy is completely different - why can they carry their babies to full term with no problems and you can't?

Either way, I know how you feel - I hate that jealousy feeling but sometimes it's so hard to stay positive. I guess that is why we are human

Sorry to hear that you lost one My sister went through that and literally had a breakdown at a family dinner because her sis in law ended up prego. But now she is pregnant with her 1st due in November! Although I'm sure no one is ever at ease until they deliver that baby and hear them cry! GL to you! This site has definitely kept me positive!

 

[greenpear]

You know what else is crappy? Conceiving after a year of trying only to lose it several weeks later. Then you go around looking at pregnant bellies and your envy is completely different - why can they carry their babies to full term with no problems and you can't?

Either way, I know how you feel - I hate that jealousy feeling but sometimes it's so hard to stay positive. I guess that is why we are human

Sorry to hear that you lost one My sister went through that and literally had a breakdown at a family dinner because her sis in law ended up prego. But now she is pregnant with her 1st due in November! Although I'm sure no one is ever at ease until they deliver that baby and hear them cry! GL to you! This site has definitely kept me positive!

Thanks! I agree - this site is good for moral support, especially when you see so many women going through the same types of struggles. I'm glad that we are all here to support one another, and I know that in the end we will have our dreams fulfilled, one way or another

 

[kjean]

Ive been praying so hard for this and I'll be sure to say a prayer for all of you too. Our time will come and it will be the most precious special time. Patience is definately the hardest part.

 

[Yammas]

I find that keeping busy makes it easier if my mind is busy then im less likely to notice all of the pregnant women walking around but I tnink its the same for everyone there will be good days and bad days GL and x

 

[alliebabyfeve]

I feel the same. I wanna be happy for those people (and I am) but I can't help but be sad and jealous. It makes me feel like a jerk. =( It's so hard to stay positive sometimes.

 

[kjean]

Yes it is, but I try to keep in mind I would want people to be happy for me. Were all going to get our moment someday, hopefully soon!

 

[bluidgrl87]

So my bff and her hubby just had their second baby Averie and she is 2 in a half months old ( we started ttc at the same time) well her dh had a vasectomy 2 week after Averie was born...well it takes 3 months for him to shoot blanks. Well one of her tale tell signs of pregnancy is sore boobs and nausea at night...guess what... she is having those symptoms again! I will not be shocked if she is pregnant again lol! And they used condoms! ugh im happy but soooo jelly!

 

[kjean]

Some people have all the luck.. Lol