IUI Jan/Feb/March/Apr/May 2012 - Status updates on page one 12 bfp

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drsquid said:
tella- what you do with your money is your business. and how your get your bfp is only the business of the people you want to know. that would suck if they made you feel guilty about persuing your dream. fingers crossed for you.
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well said, its your business Tella, and i think you should do whatever pleases you........ i am with you all the way....... :hugs:
 
Just wanted to share this with you ladies, it is proof that we should never give up!

https://www.mirror.co.uk/news/real-life-stories/our-baby-dream-finally-came-true-785404
 
I'm 9dpiui today and tested and got a bfn. I'm not too surprised and I'm kinda feeling like I'm going to be out this month. Oh well, maybe if this is not my month, next month will be!
 
ashknowsbest said:
I'm 9dpiui today and tested and got a bfn. I'm not too surprised and I'm kinda feeling like I'm going to be out this month. Oh well, maybe if this is not my month, next month will be!
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Maybe we'll get pregnant together next month!!! I have a small amount of hope left for myself for this cycle and it's 14dpiui!! I think at 9 it is still pretty early for you, but I totally understand how you are feeling! I talked to my doc last night and he (reluctantly) agreed to up my dose of the tamoxifin for next cycle, so hopefully I'll get 2 follicles that are a bit larger!!
 
Hey ladies, I hope everyone is great! I'm sorry I've been distant, but I am really have a rough time.

Today is 10pdo and I got a BFN this morning!! I was actually feeling good this cycle despite the odds against me with my lining and only one follie. Looks like next month is IVF, which I am so reluctant to do. I keep thinking, the IUI were emotionally draining and at the end of the 2ww I am devastated each time. I can only imagine how I will be if the IVF does not work. I was actually hoping this "hail Mary" worked this month and I didnt need IVF.

I am happy to hear of all the BFP!! Finally we are getting some positives on this thread.
 
Oneof14, I have been thinking of you. I'm sorry you are having a rough time, and got a BFN today. Of course there is more time for a BFP to show, but I know how you feel. I will be moving onto IVF next cycle also, and have all the same anxieties and fears about it. We will do it together. :hugs:
 
Daisy, thank you so much for your support. You truly are so wonderful and informative!

Its amazing how you gals can brighten my day. I feel awful posting about my despire when all of you ladies are going through the same things. My DH is such a wonderful support and in the end we obviously want the same thing. But sometimes, I just feel so alone! I cry very often and hide it from my him because I do not want him to see my pain. He on some many occasions has said to me "I love you and I want my wife, I can live without a child," but I can not live without my wife" It such a big struggle with infertility and marraige.

Anyway, you are right Daisy we will go through it together! And the result will be our beautiful children.

I also want to apologize for not being as supportive and posting as much and you wonferful ladies. I do think of all of you often and wish all you lots and lots of :dust:
 
Oneof14 - 10 dpiui is still early. Don't lose hope yet. I will keep my fx for you.
 
Thanks Nicker, stupid me tested 9dpt and got a positive, even though I knew it was the tigger, for some strange reason, it gave me some hope!! The crazy things we do to ourselves.

I am so happy you had a productive meeting with you doctor and your eggs are the ones of a 20 year old!! That is awesome news, hoping your next IUI is your last and ends in a BFP!! Who know maybe with your eggs, you can end up with 2 kiddies! :happydance:
 
Well ladies, for those of you who haven't read my journal it doesn't look good for this pregnancy. Beta test on 11dpo was 60 however beta test on 13dpo (about 46 hrs later) was only 70. I have to have another test tomorrow but I think it's over. I'm crushed. :sad1:
 
Wow Ash & oneof14, 9 /10 dpo is still early. I would never have tested so early or let it get me down as I wouldn't expect a positive that early! It takes a bit of time (like days after implantation) for HCG to build up in your system and to get a positive test! Just please don't give up yet, though I know how you feel. I did the same each month, was so positive then when getting bfn's at 11/12 dpo I'd beat myself up. Let's see what tomorrow or Saturday brings shall we? :hugs: :hugs: :hugs:
 
I know it's so hard when the only thing you want in life is a child and to be a mom. I have ALWAYS wanted to be a mom since I was little. I always played with dolls, I started babysitting at age 10-11, and it's always been my biggest fear, even since I was in elementary school (!) that I wouldn't be able to have a baby. I think so many of us feel this way.

I also know what it's like to feel alone in this. As much as our partners love us, they can't know what this is like. It is all consuming. Your husband sounds like a rock star and it must be comforting on some level that he can accept the worst case scenario and be satisfied with the marriage, even if it's without children. Sometimes it's hard to feel the same way since we are so focused on this and want it so badly. But deep down, I also feel that if it ends up just hubs and I, I will be OK (eventually). I will travel the world, get a dog, and try not to look back. That's the worst case scenario.

I think we will both get there. There is no obvious reason this isn't working. There is probably something subtle going on, that hopefully IVF will fix. I just hope it works first try!!
 
bastetgrrl said:
Well ladies, for those of you who haven't read my journal it doesn't look good for this pregnancy. Beta test on 11dpo was 60 however beta test on 13dpo (about 46 hrs later) was only 70. I have to have another test tomorrow but I think it's over. I'm crushed. :sad1:
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I am so sorry, is it still possible that your beta can go up, forgive my ignorance.
 
What are you doing for your mental health day off Bastet? Do something for you! Go get a pedicure or massage, something to try to aliviate a bit of that stress. I wish I could do more besides reassuring remarks, but I can't. :hugs:
 
Thanks for the support ladies! I'm not counting myself out yet as I know it's really early but I would just love for the test to be positive already :) !
 
OMG, Daisy me too, my biggest fear is not being a mom. One month years back I had a bad period and I call my gyno in a frenzie, crying and asked him if I was going into early menopuse. Dont ask me why I would think that, but that is the first thing that came to mind. Crazy.

Additionally, I am one of 14 children (5 boys, 9 girls) all from the same 2 parents and everyone I expressed that fear told me "ah, dont worry, your fertile mertile" Out of all my sisters, I am the only one with fertility issues, so they can not understand either and offer the support they can.

My DH is a wonderul, supportive, understanding and patient person, but I think being a woman and having the ultimate goal of carrying your own baby is one of lifes ultimate blessing and most men do not understand that. However, wonderful they are!!
 
Thats probably what i would do in your shoes too.
Did DH take the day off with you?
 
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