I know I think that now too, I mean my OH even said to me the other night he goes, all of that worrying when we were just dating and the condom broke for what?! I think this is all stupid! I'm happy I'm not the only one who never has had a bfp before though! I'm not alone! QUOTE]
I know what you mean, DH and I have been together for 11 years and all those years on the pill, what a waste! I wish I had gotten PG by accident, at least we wouldn't be here doing this now! I also wonder sometimes if he had spermies years ago while we were not TTC, as he has a 20 year old son now, So I don't know when they all vanished - it could be recently!
It is tough each month, no BFP, you begin think there is something wrong that they have not founf, but don't give up, it seems to take time - ages in fact

The only hope I have is that I do not see many on here who had done 4 IUI's so I presume thats because on go 4 they got BFP's - not that they gave up!
Here's hoping for us all!