I've been single...

[sweetbaby]

well I officially got dumped on yesterday, so 1 day. We had been on and off for the last 2 weeks after I left. But when I told him I couldn't have sex with him any more because it was too emotional because he didn't want a relationship anymore just a sex partner. I told him I wanted to wait and not have sex anymore until we decide whether we are getting married or not, and he said he was not interested in that type of relationship and he stated he didn't want to talk to me anymore. Just let him know when I'm having the baby.

 

[hancake100]

One week tomorrow for me

I cant wait till I am at the point you ladies are because at the moment I dont feel all that strong on my own.

You are all making it look easy now, so sure I can do it

Time makes it easier hun, but I won't lie it will take a lot of time. Some deal with it better than others. I'm 6 months in and still feel like my heart in being ripped in two a lot of the time but I go longer times with being happy by myself and thinking of him less.

I think in anther 6 months I will be a totally different person, and look back on how I am now and wonder why I was such an idiot.

But right now give yourself time to grieve for a lost relationship and don't put too much stress on yourself. It will get easier, I promise

Thankyou hun
Its still so raw to be but Ellie really takes my mind of things and friends and family have been brill, It just when im alone and Ellie is in bed I really feel it and im always checking my phone or checking if he is logged into facebook. Its so hard I just hope for him to text me or come round and for him so say that he is being silly and he wants me back but I really dont see that happening and even if he did I know it prob wont be the best thing to do.
This is the worse feeling in the world

 

[Pyrrhic]

It is a horrible feeling and I think at one point we all want out ex's to come in, cuddle us and tell us how much they miss us. To want to fight for us, and feel like we matter. Evenings are the hardest. I actually started Reading to pass the time. Have you read eat pray love? Very good book about a woman who finds herself again after divorce.

 

[hancake100]

I used to read all the time, but since Ellie has been here I havent picked up a book but I think that sounds like a good idea I have never heard of that book before, I think I might give that ago, thankyou I need a pick me up book.

 

[kileighsmomxo]

ive been single for almost 7 months

 

[billy2mm]

well I officially got dumped on yesterday, so 1 day. We had been on and off for the last 2 weeks after I left. But when I told him I couldn't have sex with him any more because it was too emotional because he didn't want a relationship anymore just a sex partner. I told him I wanted to wait and not have sex anymore until we decide whether we are getting married or not, and he said he was not interested in that type of relationship and he stated he didn't want to talk to me anymore. Just let him know when I'm having the baby.

what an arse!!! total waste of space!!

 

[LOZANDEVIE]

13months