IVF/FET in Aug'13' - Aug'14' buddies wanted!!*13 BFP's!!**Updates on first page**

We got snow down this way as well, Megan. Yesterday, I stayed in and built a coat rack from Ikea, and did a little organizing. So, nothing too exciting (although that coat rack was harder to put together than it looked - very unwieldy).

Sorry to hear you are having MS, Disney. :hugs: Hope it gets better, soon! And thanks for the well wishes for all of us!
 
Found a little old blood when inserting Crinone, hope it's all good. Nothing on tp or undies, no cramps. In addition, been feeling pretty good lately, not much MS, hunger either... Boobs slightly sore.
 
Found a little old blood when inserting Crinone, hope it's all good. Nothing on tp or undies, no cramps. In addition, been feeling pretty good lately, not much MS, hunger either... Boobs slightly sore.

I think you should be good as long as you aren't seeing red blood or experiencing heavy camps. :hugs: I'm glad you're feeling good and aren't having much MS. My boobs seem to get more and more sore by the day. :wacko:
 
Hi ladies!

I've been on a holding pattern for the past month or so and didn't have much to say. Congratulations to those that have been successful & good luck to those moving forward.

Megan - I couldn't exactly tell what you'd decided, but we have a branch of the Sher institute here in LV and they don't have what I'd consider rave reviews. LV has 4 IVF clinics and his is the lowest rated of the four - most of the complaints are of the "he will tell you whatever you want to get your money" type. I know that the clinics mostly license his name, but that still says a lot to me.

AFM: Since I last posted, I had a cancelled FET, followed by a SHG. The sono found a large mass in my uterus, which had to be removed. RE removed it under general anesthesia just before Thanksgiving. Then, I rolled right into a December FET. Much to my amazement, we are almost there. They thawed our four embryos on Saturday. I am expecting the lab report today to see how many survived, what the quality is, etc. Assuming good results, ET is Wednesday. I'm so nervous - we only have four embryos... what if none of them survive, or if none of them mature properly? Ugh. Someone said it a few pages back - it seems like nothing but a never-ending cycle of worry.

We don't have a plan B at this point - we've borrowed everything we can borrow, and then some. Since I'm a teacher, I'll have my TWW during the winter holidays. That means I won't be working and have nothing but time to worry on my hands. :(
 
Disney, when is the next U/s? Can you feel the baby moving around or is it still too early for that?

As for the MS, gosh, that doesn't sound like fun at all. :hugs:

I guess I'm so caught up with trying to get that BFP, I haven't even spared a minute to think about all that's going to follow AFTER! And I have friends who tell me, honey, pregnancy is the fun part. Its after the baby is born that the real work starts...

Oh well, I'm trying to convince myself that maybe this TTC journey is designed to make me thankful when I finally do have the baby and I'm getting tired and complaining why did I want kids? Lol... :haha:

But seriously, I really hope your MS eases out soon... I'm not sure the fatigue goes away at all once you get pregnant?

SmallTownGal Yeah, those things look easy to put together, and DH almost never attempts it, hes so clumsy. Anything that needs assembling and patience, is my job, Lol. How is the snowstorm today, is it very cold there?

Flagirlie Crinone is known to irritate the cervix and cause bleeding, so that could be what you saw. Also the fact that its twins could be a factor contributing to bleeding; that's common as well. You should be fine, hon. :hugs:

Jessica, hon, although its mathematically possible that none survive the thaw, that's not likely to happen. Don't stress yourself about it, they will do just fine. :hugs:

Goodluck with your ET, now only two days away! Yay! :thumbup:

About Sher, you're right, I've heard mixed reviews about Sher. Some were terrible reviews of the LV facility, in fact, but there's also a lot of rave reviews claiming exactly the opposite.

Now my position is this: my current RE hasn't tested me for investigating the reasons why it isn't attaching. I suspect autoimmune issues since the eggs are many, good quality, blah-blah-blah but they simply won't attach. Very few facilities on the east coast test for autoimmune conditions, and SIRM offers that option, and are in-network with my insurance. That's why I'm going to consult Dr. Tortoreillo at their NYC office.

I also consulted with a highly rated doctor from the best facility (highest SART success rates) in NJ - IRMS, Dr. Hughes, and she said she didnt believe in autoimmune therapy for IVF implantation issues because it deprives Cancer patients of their medication, which is used for IVF treatments instead of treating cancer. I don't believe in depriving a cancer patient of their medication just in order to conceive, but its hard to believe that's actually true? She sounded kooky, and was talking to herself more than us during the consultation, fidgeting around with her desk constantly, not making enough eye contact, and could not give us credible answers to our questions. And yet, she had very good reviews when I looked her up. :dohh: How reliable are reviews then? Or published success rates? I wonder. :nope:

So anyway, we eliminated her from the list, and I'm going to consult with Gold Coast IVF on Jan 7th. They also perform a complete battery of diagnostic tests, so if I am satisfied with what Dr. Palter offers as my protocol, I might go ahead with him and not go to Sher at all, even for the consultation. :thumbup:

If I'm not satisfied with Dr. Palter's diagnosing attempts however, I might still keep the appointment with Sher. So what I'm saying is, I'm not sure yet.

I haven't decided which RE its going to be, but like I eliminated two so far on account of their unwillingness to do any testing or anything different in their protocols; I will not go ahead with anyone else unless I'm 100% satisfied.

I firmly believe that this time round, my decision has to be based on their diagnosis of my condition, and the treatment they offer - a personal experience with the RE and evaluating what they actually offer versus what they promise initially.

I just wish I was better informed a year ago when we started out... so much effort and expense and pain... all in vain... Sigh... :nope:
 
Hi, Jessica! :hi: Sending you prayers and well wishes for your embies and for your FET! [-o<

flagirlie, with old blood and no cramps, you should be fine, but I know it's hard not to worry. :hugs:

Megan, it snowed some more here, today, but not too bad. I have an eye doctor appointment tomorrow (I need new glasses, whether my eyes have changed or not - the coating is flaking off the lenses and the frames have a loose screw I'm constantly having to tighten), so hopefully it doesn't snow tomorrow. It's a little bit below freezing right now, so not too bad for snow weather.

Hope Dr. Palter knocks it out of the park for you!
 
Also, as a weird coincidence (I hope!) i have been feeling better, like my nausea kinda disappeared (had it a few times last week), boobs less sore than before, bit less hungry and peeing... hope it all falls under normal, but seeing that thing in the morning did not exactly calm me down... after over-thinking the whole weekend...
 
Lab report! I've been waiting on eggshells all day - I even kept my cell ringer on (against the rules) while I was teaching. Literally 90 seconds after the last bell of the day, RE called. All four of my embryos survived and are growing. Two are growing "better" than the others. They will call me around 9am Wednesday with final instructions for my 1230 ET. :happydance:
 
Jessica wow! that's awesome news! So happy for you!!! :happydance: You are all set dearie!! Are you doing Pineapple core / Lean protein / Low carb diet to help implantation?

Flagirlie don't stress yourself out hon... when is your next blood test / Scan? That's probably the only thing that's going to give you some peace of mind from this worry that's nagging at your mind... I'm sure you're going to be fine, but if its' driving you to overthink, you might want to schedule a scan / test just so you can be at peace knowing everything's ok?

SmallTownGal We have a snowstorm expected here tomorrow again, about 3-5 inches of snow expected between 10am - 1pm. Its not even Christmas and its already gotten so cold... Brrrrr I don't want to think about February!! The Midwestern states are probably helluva lot colder than NJ !!?!!
 
Disney, when is the next U/s? Can you feel the baby moving around or is it still too early for that?

As for the MS, gosh, that doesn't sound like fun at all. :hugs:

I guess I'm so caught up with trying to get that BFP, I haven't even spared a minute to think about all that's going to follow AFTER! And I have friends who tell me, honey, pregnancy is the fun part. Its after the baby is born that the real work starts...

Oh well, I'm trying to convince myself that maybe this TTC journey is designed to make me thankful when I finally do have the baby and I'm getting tired and complaining why did I want kids? Lol... :haha:

But seriously, I really hope your MS eases out soon... I'm not sure the fatigue goes away at all once you get pregnant?

My next ultrasound isn't until I'm 18-20 weeks! It seems like that's ages from now. I think that's somewhere near the end of January through the beginning-middle of February. I have a short appointment with my regular OBGYN tomorrow (I officially "graduated" from the RE at 10 weeks). No ultrasound, but I believe she will check the heartbeat with a Doppler. I can't feel this little one moving yet, though she was moving a lot on my last 2 ultrasounds. I can't wait until I can feel her moving! I don't even have any signs of a bump yet -- just the tummy fat that I've always had. I'm not sure when that will show up. :shrug:

MS was better yesterday and even better today. I hope that's a good sign. As crummy as I feel sometimes, I waited through 2 years and 2 IVF cycles for this, so I wouldn't trade it for the world. I'm really pulling for you and all of the other wonderful ladies here. I hope that your new doctor(s) find you a plan that works (and quickly! :thumbup:). :hugs:

Also, as a weird coincidence (I hope!) i have been feeling better, like my nausea kinda disappeared (had it a few times last week), boobs less sore than before, bit less hungry and peeing... hope it all falls under normal, but seeing that thing in the morning did not exactly calm me down... after over-thinking the whole weekend...

I didn't really have any symptoms for the majority of the first trimester (thus far) until a few weeks ago -- that is, aside from fatigue, minor boob soreness, and occasional queasiness from time to time. I even stopped peeing frequently. I'm sure you and your little ones are doing great! :hugs:

Lab report! I've been waiting on eggshells all day - I even kept my cell ringer on (against the rules) while I was teaching. Literally 90 seconds after the last bell of the day, RE called. All four of my embryos survived and are growing. Two are growing "better" than the others. They will call me around 9am Wednesday with final instructions for my 1230 ET. :happydance:

Great news! :dust: that they continue to thrive. Best of luck with your transfer! You've been waiting so long and really deserve to get some good news! :hugs:
 
Thanks, ladies! Seems to be hungrier again and peeing more. Some disgusting stuff coming out (Crinone, it's usually white, but now turning like black, ewww)... Some cramps last night, that would be my usual uterus stretching. So, we are good I guess.

Next U/S is 12/27. 7 weeks today!
 
Yay for the embryos, Jessica!!!! :happydance: FX'd they continue to thrive! How many are you planning to put in, given the choice? If all make it, will you refreeze some for later?

Try not to worry, flagirlie , although I know it's hard not too :hugs: And sorry for the icky black discharge with the Crinone! :hugs: FX'd that goes away soon for you.

Looking at the weather sites, it seems to be the same temp here in OH as in NJ, just no more fresh snow showers, Megan. It's not so bad in the day, but at night it drops quite a bit and brrrr, indeed!:cold:

Glad your MS is better, Disney! And thanks for the well wishes! <3

AFM: I'm off to my eye doctor appt. :)
 
Thanks Disney. Glad the symptoms are easing off, and I guess the bump will begin showing in another few weeks. Are you planning to work through the pregnancy or take time off?

Flagirlie, 7 weeks, Yay! Congratulations! :hugs: And hon, I'm relieved that you're relieved! :happydance:

SmalltownGal We have another snowstorm today. I'm at home, temperamental (dunno why?) and all bundled up, trying to keep warm. As much as I want to go back to work, I dread commuting in the snow. I have very low tolerance for cold, and I keep telling DH we ought to move west to California. Maybe at some point 2-3 years from now.

How did the eye appointment go? Do you like to experiment with new frames in spectacles or prefer lenses? Personally, I'm terrified of putting anything in my eye, even lenses, lol. :haha: I prefer spectacles any day...
 
Yay for the embryos, Jessica!!!! :happydance: FX'd they continue to thrive! How many are you planning to put in, given the choice? If all make it, will you refreeze some for later?

We aren't sure... we've been talking about it and don't know if we should do one or two, given the choice. I guess it will come down to whether we can re-freeze them or not. If we can, we might just do one, as our RE offers unlimited FET cycles so long as we have embryos to work with. If he doesn't think they'll survive another freeze, we might do two.
 
:hi:

Just a quick update from me -

Called the clinic yesterday and i have my start date for the northisterone - 27th Dec and i hope i start my af on the 7th Jan (ish) and ill call up the clinic for my baseline scan to be scheduled on the 8th or 9th Jan :happydance: The nerves are starting to get me now, i just hope i produce enough eggs fxd! xx
 
Yay for the embryos, Jessica!!!! :happydance: FX'd they continue to thrive! How many are you planning to put in, given the choice? If all make it, will you refreeze some for later?

We aren't sure... we've been talking about it and don't know if we should do one or two, given the choice. I guess it will come down to whether we can re-freeze them or not. If we can, we might just do one, as our RE offers unlimited FET cycles so long as we have embryos to work with. If he doesn't think they'll survive another freeze, we might do two.

We did a thaw / refreeze on two of our embryos when we did our PGS testing after cycle 2 (turns out that only one of those two were normal -- our one boy embryo). I don't yet know how he will do when we thaw him again, but he's going in next if he does well (2nd best embryo grade). My doctor felt pretty confident about the labs ability to freeze/thaw twice. I'm keeping my fingers crossed for next time, but perhaps it's a real option for you.

Then again, there's nothing wrong with going with a double-transfer, either. :thumbup:
 
Thanks Disney. Glad the symptoms are easing off, and I guess the bump will begin showing in another few weeks. Are you planning to work through the pregnancy or take time off?

Flagirlie, 7 weeks, Yay! Congratulations! :hugs: And hon, I'm relieved that you're relieved! :happydance:

SmalltownGal We have another snowstorm today. I'm at home, temperamental (dunno why?) and all bundled up, trying to keep warm. As much as I want to go back to work, I dread commuting in the snow. I have very low tolerance for cold, and I keep telling DH we ought to move west to California. Maybe at some point 2-3 years from now.

How did the eye appointment go? Do you like to experiment with new frames in spectacles or prefer lenses? Personally, I'm terrified of putting anything in my eye, even lenses, lol. :haha: I prefer spectacles any day...

I think I barfed not even an hour after I said that I was doing well. Today was a good day, though. :thumbup:

I have an office job and plan to work pretty much through most of the pregnancy. The more time I work before the birth, the longer I can get away with not working after. Boy am I tired when I get home, though!

And I'm a bit biased here, but California is an awesome place to live. :thumbup: The only downside is it's super expensive to live here.
 
Hi ladies! Sorry I've been so MIA. My son has been sick. I went in for a scan yesterday. Good news is beanie is dating 8W5D. Bad news, there are lots of pockets of blood - subchorionic hematomas. I had that last time and had to do 1 week of bed rest, something that's virtually impossible with a 1 year old.

flagirlie, I have bleeding also. I've accepted that 1st trimester is just full of challenges. I pull down my pants to look every time I feel something and usually it's the progesterone. :haha: At least you're hungry, I don't want to eat much of anything these days. 12/27, so your dr doesn't scan weekly?

megan, I gotta say, as much as I hated the cold...now that I live in CA, I miss snow so much! Anyways, I hope you find a good dr who will pinpoint your problems. I know you've got some 20 yr old eggs and that's not the problem. You should ask about MTHFR gene mutation test.

Jessica, today is your big day! Exciting...keep us posted pls!

Plex, you're getting closer sweetie. I'm so excited for you. Every step is so exciting, you actually feel like you're doing something.

Disney, I'm convinced having girls make you sicker. I hope you get better soon! I'm super sick as well but looks like my son is doing all the puking for me. Did you have your NT scan? I just booked mine.
 
Hi ladies! Sorry I've been so MIA. My son has been sick. I went in for a scan yesterday. Good news is beanie is dating 8W5D. Bad news, there are lots of pockets of blood - subchorionic hematomas. I had that last time and had to do 1 week of bed rest, something that's virtually impossible with a 1 year old.

flagirlie, I have bleeding also. I've accepted that 1st trimester is just full of challenges. I pull down my pants to look every time I feel something and usually it's the progesterone. :haha: At least you're hungry, I don't want to eat much of anything these days. 12/27, so your dr doesn't scan weekly?

megan, I gotta say, as much as I hated the cold...now that I live in CA, I miss snow so much! Anyways, I hope you find a good dr who will pinpoint your problems. I know you've got some 20 yr old eggs and that's not the problem. You should ask about MTHFR gene mutation test.

Jessica, today is your big day! Exciting...keep us posted pls!

Plex, you're getting closer sweetie. I'm so excited for you. Every step is so exciting, you actually feel like you're doing something.

Disney, I'm convinced having girls make you sicker. I hope you get better soon! I'm super sick as well but looks like my son is doing all the puking for me. Did you have your NT scan? I just booked mine.

Sunshine, we are still in RE's hands. They do two ultrasounds before letting me go to OB - hmm which I am still looking for, I do have my current one, however I am not sold and she doesn't deliver at the hospital I love, so, plus not sure if I need maternal fetal due to twins? Don't wanna be another number in a busy practice!

Other than that, all good, no more spotting it seems, and eating 2 breakfasts and 2 lunches surely helped today. Had to get up last night twice to eat! Arghh. Sleep deprived.
 
oh wow, so jealy you have an appetite. I was going to say, I'm not peeing as much these days, either. I'm the opposite w/appetite though, I forgot to eat lunch today and started getting dizzy!
 

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