IVF/FET in Aug'13' - Aug'14' buddies wanted!!*13 BFP's!!**Updates on first page**

[4magpies]

Thanks for your advice sammy. We are gonna do our best to hold out till OTD which is 11dp5dt xx

 

[sunshine8]

Saying a prayer for u buny! I hope Friday brings brilliant news

Iv done a digital last night 2-3 weeks came up and another positive this morning. Can't phone clinic until Monday as after otd.
Fingers crossed for u all in 2ww hope ur not as impatient as I am lol xxx

Hey Sammy, that's really fantastic. For me it is a BFN .

Bizziibii, how are you doing? Yes we will do a FET, but it will be after I have had one period cycle, so around early November. But you know what, I am not so hopeful. If it did not work this time, what is the guarantee it will work the next time. Been crying since 3 days. This is so hard.

GL to all ladies on their journey and I hope with all my heart that you all get a BFP, and don't have to go through this miserable feeling I am going through. Take care ladies.

 

[adroplet]

Sammy - Congratulations!

Sunshine8 - So sorry . Hopefully we will both have successful FETs.

Izabela - I think my FET will be a little after yours....date still pending.

 

[bizzibii]

Saying a prayer for u buny! I hope Friday brings brilliant news

Iv done a digital last night 2-3 weeks came up and another positive this morning. Can't phone clinic until Monday as after otd.
Fingers crossed for u all in 2ww hope ur not as impatient as I am lol xxx

Hey Sammy, that's really fantastic. For me it is a BFN .

Bizziibii, how are you doing? Yes we will do a FET, but it will be after I have had one period cycle, so around early November. But you know what, I am not so hopeful. If it did not work this time, what is the guarantee it will work the next time. Been crying since 3 days. This is so hard.

GL to all ladies on their journey and I hope with all my heart that you all get a BFP, and don't have to go through this miserable feeling I am going through. Take care ladies.

Oh Sunshine, we are in the exact same situation again. I also have to wait till November because of the 1 cycle wait , and I have the same thoughts as you do. I am more angry than sad now to be honest . I have decided I will do acupuncture for the FET, not because I believe it will increase my chances but I hope it is gonna make me more relaxed. I was a nervous wreck since the first day of the BFN's and I have promised myself I will not test early. I wish I could give you a hug. Personally I don't like when people say " Oh I know this woman who got pregnant after this and that" or " many women get pregnant during their FET even if the fresh cycle failed " etc. Many do , but many don't. And it may not work for me the next cycle but I won't know if I don't try. I am getting ready for popping one in until I ran out of frozen babies. Apparently it is much easier than the whole IVF . we probably won't be the exact cycle buddies next time but please let me know how it goes. And I will be thinking of you and I will keep my fingers crossed.

 

[TeeinAZ]

Sammi - YAYAY Girl I am so happy for you. I am 8dp5dt and I am so trying to hold off on testing. GAH the pressure! LOL

Sunshine - I am so sorry!

 

[sunshine8]

Saying a prayer for u buny! I hope Friday brings brilliant news

Iv done a digital last night 2-3 weeks came up and another positive this morning. Can't phone clinic until Monday as after otd.
Fingers crossed for u all in 2ww hope ur not as impatient as I am lol xxx

Hey Sammy, that's really fantastic. For me it is a BFN .

Bizziibii, how are you doing? Yes we will do a FET, but it will be after I have had one period cycle, so around early November. But you know what, I am not so hopeful. If it did not work this time, what is the guarantee it will work the next time. Been crying since 3 days. This is so hard.

GL to all ladies on their journey and I hope with all my heart that you all get a BFP, and don't have to go through this miserable feeling I am going through. Take care ladies.

Oh Sunshine, we are in the exact same situation again. I also have to wait till November because of the 1 cycle wait , and I have the same thoughts as you do. I am more angry than sad now to be honest . I have decided I will do acupuncture for the FET, not because I believe it will increase my chances but I hope it is gonna make me more relaxed. I was a nervous wreck since the first day of the BFN's and I have promised myself I will not test early. I wish I could give you a hug. Personally I don't like when people say " Oh I know this woman who got pregnant after this and that" or " many women get pregnant during their FET even if the fresh cycle failed " etc. Many do , but many don't. And it may not work for me the next cycle but I won't know if I don't try. I am getting ready for popping one in until I ran out of frozen babies. Apparently it is much easier than the whole IVF . we probably won't be the exact cycle buddies next time but please let me know how it goes. And I will be thinking of you and I will keep my fingers crossed.

Bizzbiii, I know sweet, we shouldn't have tested earlier, since Friday I am a nervous wreck, can't concentrate on my work just can't do anything straight. I am also considering the acupuncture and again like you not that I am hoping some miracle will take place but just for my relaxation. I so wish we lived close by, so I could hold you and cry out loud. I have been crying since sunday full zoom.

Please keep me posted too, we might still be pretty close on FET too. according to my estimate it should be around early nov, but we don't know the FET procedure yet. Will know more about it coming Tuesday.

Take care my buddy and if you ever want to talk, just give me a shout, I will be here. Take care and be easy on yourself.

 

[sunshine8]

Sammy - Congratulations!

Sunshine8 - So sorry . Hopefully we will both have successful FETs.

Izabela - I think my FET will be a little after yours....date still pending.

I hope so too adroplet, any idea what are the success rate for a FET. Not to be discouraging, but from what I have read (and I hope that is wrong), FET has much lower chance of success than fresh cycles.

When is you FET hun? sorry if you have mentioned this info before, just that my mind is so wooly at the moment.

 

[bettybee1]

Sunshine - am really sorry your having a hard time off it !
fETs can be more succesful sometimes as Hormone levels in freshs go a lil crazy my docters suggested too me of 3# fails then too do an all freeze cycle and be arrgressve with FET ?:/

Also I wouldn't try too focuS that one cycle has failed so why wid another work there's only a 37% chance off it working so that leaves 63% people withouta love birth ! X

 

[adroplet]

Sammy - Congratulations!

Sunshine8 - So sorry . Hopefully we will both have successful FETs.

Izabela - I think my FET will be a little after yours....date still pending.

I hope so too adroplet, any idea what are the success rate for a FET. Not to be discouraging, but from what I have read (and I hope that is wrong), FET has much lower chance of success than fresh cycles.

When is you FET hun? sorry if you have mentioned this info before, just that my mind is so wooly at the moment.

No, I do not know the FET success rates and don't care to research them anymore. FET is my path for now and have no control on the outcome.
I believe every situation is different and positive attitudes bring on positive outcomes. I know it can be hard to stay positive with all the BFNs and cancelled cycles... I try to think of them now as another cycle to try again. Stress will make you sick and in our case, get in the way of bfps.
I've learned to not stress over something that hasn't occurred yet and not to dwell on something that I cannot control.
I hope you all feel better soon

 

[Disneyfan88]

Sorry to the ladies who got BFNs recently.

I've heard that FETs can have better success rates as the uterus is in a closer state to a "natural" pregnancy than it is during an IVF cycle. I hope it's true as I'm doing a FET in October. I went in for an ultrasound today. I have a pretty big cyst in one ovary and another medium size one in the other, but my doctor has cleared me to start taking my estradiol and Dexamethasone tomorrow morning. The transfer is on.

I should hopefully have our biopsy results tomorrow. I'm praying that we get to keep most (if not all!) of our 6 frozen embryos. My wallet can't take a third cycle, so I'm not even considering that as a possibility.

 

[Izabela]

Great new buny, this must be such a happy day for you.

For me it is a BFN, did a test with another brand and its a BFN, I am so gutted, cried all day even my DH was very down, I feel so much pain inside , hope I get over this soon.

I wish lots of baby dust to ladies who are Pupo, and hope you get your BFPs . GL to ladies DR and stimm now, hope all will go well for you lovely ladies and you all will come out successfully on the other side.

I hope I can sleep well tonite, it will take couple of days to deal with this setback.

So sorry Sunshine8 is never easy a BFN but look forward to FET there are people with success out of frozen and not fresh. How many frosties do you have.

 

[sammy1987xxx]

So sorry sunshine xxxx

 

[Izabela]

sunshine8- I am so sorry hunny.

adroplet- Good luck with exam and labs! Go FET!

*Update* Talked to doctor today and she is having me come in for another beta on Friday. If the number looks good, we'll have an u/s on Monday to check to make sure the early low numbers aren't due to the pregnancy being ectopic. If the number hasn't risen correctly, she'll take me off the progesterone and when AF arrives we'll start a FET cycle. Its all still up in the air right now, though the doctor says that the jump from Friday to Monday is very promising.

Great news bunny. Baby dust!!!!

 

[Izabela]

I just got the call - I'm cleared for FET this cycle!
It will be medicated. I am to start BCPs today, for 10days. Then I will begin estrace tabs followed by progesterone supp. Don't know exact date for FET just yet but excited anyway.

Mrs T - have you tested???

Izabela - good luck with your FET!

Yay for starting FET you got 14 blasts wow this is so great. How many are you going to defrost first? Your baby is definitely there.

 

[Izabela]

So sorry sunshine xxxx

Sammy1987 congrats for your positive.

 

[Izabela]

Thanks for your advice sammy. We are gonna do our best to hold out till OTD which is 11dp5dt xx

Good luck to everybody in the 2 week wait. baby dust!!!

 

[adroplet]

Izabela- yeah, we are going to transfer 2 blasts in Oct. I made sure my clinic froze them all individually. We are so lucky to have 14, I'd hate to go through that all over again.

I finally got my FET calendar and the estimated transfer date as of now will be Oct. 14

 

[ababy4us]

I've heard FETs have a higher success rate than fresh.


I've just had my first u/s to check follicles, I only have 7 and they are small after 4 days of stimming (today is day 5 but haven't done my first stim yet for the day). I'm feeling pretty discouraged, I don't know what I was hoping for but I feel down.

 

[bunyhuny]

Temp dropped today and I have had spotting and cramps all day. Doctor says to be prepared for a miscarriage. I'll go in and have another beta tomorrow, but spotting seems to be getting heavier so not feeling hopeful. Doesn't look good, ladies.

 

[Hennapop]

Buny, Im praying for you. Take care of yourself. xx