Sophie2015
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I fall into so many categories. LTTTC. TTC after a loss. RPL. TTC over 40.
Long story short. After grieving the loss of my 2 embryos from my IVF in November / December, I finally decided to have a visit with my RE to get answers about why they weren't able to do PGS testing which resulted in a failed cycle. My RE has always felt my only issue and source of my RPL was egg quality. I've been against IVF using donor eggs from the start. And did not go to this follow up visit thinking I'd change my mind. But it came up. As I knew it would. And surprisingly I found myself not only considering it but feeling somewhat hopeful.
It would provide my DH with a biological child and myself with a child that was his biologically if not my own biologically. (We don't have any children).
But I have reservations. The cost. Our ages (we are early mid 40s). To tell or not to tell we used donor eggs.
Anyone been through this that can give me advice/wisdom? Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.
Long story short. After grieving the loss of my 2 embryos from my IVF in November / December, I finally decided to have a visit with my RE to get answers about why they weren't able to do PGS testing which resulted in a failed cycle. My RE has always felt my only issue and source of my RPL was egg quality. I've been against IVF using donor eggs from the start. And did not go to this follow up visit thinking I'd change my mind. But it came up. As I knew it would. And surprisingly I found myself not only considering it but feeling somewhat hopeful.
It would provide my DH with a biological child and myself with a child that was his biologically if not my own biologically. (We don't have any children).
But I have reservations. The cost. Our ages (we are early mid 40s). To tell or not to tell we used donor eggs.
Anyone been through this that can give me advice/wisdom? Any thoughts would be greatly appreciated.