I weighed myself every Friday when I was losing weight. We should pick a day for all of us to do our weigh in. It really helped me when people were holding me accountable for my weight loss. I posted on facebook constantly to have the support.
I'm not sure what you ladies plan on doing for losing weight but what I found to work for me last time was the Jillian Michaels 30 day shred. She is SO brutal but it works wonders and only has me working out for 20 minutes. This is good when you don't have tons of time to spend working out. Also it works your whole body. I also like to do Zumba - I have that on the wii - and I like to do belly dancing as well. I have no rhythm and look ridiculous but no one can see me so whatever! Walking is also a great way to let the kiddos have some fresh air as well. I power walk with the stroller and my 50lb dog. lol!
I learned that eating right and exercising is all there is to it. You have to watch your portions! I first started reading about serving sizes and watching calories until I learned the correct amount to eat. After that, I didn't have to count, I just knew how much I should have been eating. Also, I will say the first 30 days is the hardest. If you can make it through that, you will succeed. I fussed and cussed and hated the thought of what I was doing but with DH pushing me and knowing that I wanted to be healthy more than anything, I managed to get through.
One more thing that I found to help me, watch the scale but don't hold on to it hard. Always remember that muscle weighs more and the scale will not tell you that you have sexy guns instead of a fat gut.
Do watch the numbers but also watch how you look in the mirror and trust how your pants fit. And always listen to what people tell you. If they notice that you are losing weight and say you look great ...
keep going!
I will need you ladies for those days when I need to vent about how much I miss certain things. Before I would vent about when I desperately wanted that second helping but knew better. I'm so excited that we will have each other for this!! I think we are all going to be hot sexy mamas!