smiffy85
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Wow we all have so much to tell at the mo! Think I only posted yday morning and yet again had about 3 pages to read. So my apologies if I forget to mention you all lol! But just in case 
for everyone!
I've accepted all my fb requests lol! Don't think I've had so many at once since I first joined. Didn't know half your real names lol and went on fb before I checked here. So spent a little while looking at mutual friends....naomi made it easy cos her name is the same lol!
Hodbert you naughty girl fancy leaving us and lounging with the 28 weekers lol! Glad to hear from you hun and hope everything is ok with you over in the sunshine!
Millward I admire your strength and tenacity hun. What great timing but they do say you often find clarity when things like bringing another person into the world and them being the most important thing happen. Gives you the drive you need to make sure the world is right and safe for them and you. Well done and its great your family is right behind you too.
Naomi my OH can be a bit like yours. I think I must moan quite a bit now lol cos he tends to ignore me. As long as he supports me at the birth and checks on me now and again I know thats just his way. But in terms of feeling unwanted have you tried mentioning it to him? Know its hard but if all you would like is a cuddle then thats not too much to ask surely. Men can be such a pain in the arse sometimes. Specially when we feel at our most emotional and vulberable.
abstermum I hope the trip to the hospital/lab isn't too traumatic for you hun. And hope all will be fine with the results
Im so glad that we have heard from sar! I wrote a message on her thread but hopefully she will get the treatment she needs and get lots of rest.
I think thats all I can remember! To be honest Im quite impressed I remembered all those things with my baby brain at mo. Had a nice day yesterday with OH actually. Went out to derby shopping in the afternoon and then met up with his workmates for the evening as one of them is leaving to start a new job. Had a bit of a sugar crash walking round the shops tho. Jack said I looked terrible lol and I just said I needed an energy boost so off we toddled to a cafe where I guzzled a half litre bottle of OJ and slice of carrot cake in about 2 mins. Crazyness but I felt better after it. The evening was nice tho! Met his workmates in slug and lettuce and stayed there for ages. There was about 30 people and I haven't seen some of them since I was about 12 wks preg so I answered a lot of the same questions over and over lol about boy or girl? names? etc., Got rubbed and prodded lots too but I don't mind that. With me driving it meant OH could have some alcohol and boy did he drink some cider lol. Finally made him leave at 10 as I was shattered after being out in derby since half 1 and I needed food lol. He was nicely drunk lol, the kind where every sentence ended with 'I love you' lol. Made me giggle. We picked up fish and chips (yum) and went home to eat them. At which point he gobbled them down and got the serious hiccups. We tried allsorts to get rid of them because we went to bed and he was literally shaking the bed! He hates them too. So I decided to be a kind girlfriend and try pleasurable methods for him lol. Needless to say it didn't really work - too much alcohol and too many hiccups lol - and at the point where I was deciding whether to try out DTD and stood up to get naked, he rolled over and passed out lol! Charming ay? Anyway he can't remember any of it right now and is suffering in bed with a bad head lol!! I have been up since 7 am and have got another busy day of friends and family today too!!!
Hope you ladies are enjoying your wknd xxxxxx
for everyone!I've accepted all my fb requests lol! Don't think I've had so many at once since I first joined. Didn't know half your real names lol and went on fb before I checked here. So spent a little while looking at mutual friends....naomi made it easy cos her name is the same lol!
Hodbert you naughty girl fancy leaving us and lounging with the 28 weekers lol! Glad to hear from you hun and hope everything is ok with you over in the sunshine!
Millward I admire your strength and tenacity hun. What great timing but they do say you often find clarity when things like bringing another person into the world and them being the most important thing happen. Gives you the drive you need to make sure the world is right and safe for them and you. Well done and its great your family is right behind you too.
Naomi my OH can be a bit like yours. I think I must moan quite a bit now lol cos he tends to ignore me. As long as he supports me at the birth and checks on me now and again I know thats just his way. But in terms of feeling unwanted have you tried mentioning it to him? Know its hard but if all you would like is a cuddle then thats not too much to ask surely. Men can be such a pain in the arse sometimes. Specially when we feel at our most emotional and vulberable.
abstermum I hope the trip to the hospital/lab isn't too traumatic for you hun. And hope all will be fine with the results
Im so glad that we have heard from sar! I wrote a message on her thread but hopefully she will get the treatment she needs and get lots of rest.
I think thats all I can remember! To be honest Im quite impressed I remembered all those things with my baby brain at mo. Had a nice day yesterday with OH actually. Went out to derby shopping in the afternoon and then met up with his workmates for the evening as one of them is leaving to start a new job. Had a bit of a sugar crash walking round the shops tho. Jack said I looked terrible lol and I just said I needed an energy boost so off we toddled to a cafe where I guzzled a half litre bottle of OJ and slice of carrot cake in about 2 mins. Crazyness but I felt better after it. The evening was nice tho! Met his workmates in slug and lettuce and stayed there for ages. There was about 30 people and I haven't seen some of them since I was about 12 wks preg so I answered a lot of the same questions over and over lol about boy or girl? names? etc., Got rubbed and prodded lots too but I don't mind that. With me driving it meant OH could have some alcohol and boy did he drink some cider lol. Finally made him leave at 10 as I was shattered after being out in derby since half 1 and I needed food lol. He was nicely drunk lol, the kind where every sentence ended with 'I love you' lol. Made me giggle. We picked up fish and chips (yum) and went home to eat them. At which point he gobbled them down and got the serious hiccups. We tried allsorts to get rid of them because we went to bed and he was literally shaking the bed! He hates them too. So I decided to be a kind girlfriend and try pleasurable methods for him lol. Needless to say it didn't really work - too much alcohol and too many hiccups lol - and at the point where I was deciding whether to try out DTD and stood up to get naked, he rolled over and passed out lol! Charming ay? Anyway he can't remember any of it right now and is suffering in bed with a bad head lol!! I have been up since 7 am and have got another busy day of friends and family today too!!!
Hope you ladies are enjoying your wknd xxxxxx
