Lots to read again ladies - I wonder if there will be this much when we've all got our demanding newborns to care for lol!
Tracey - I agree with everyone. You have got quite enough on your plate and to have an elderly relative thrust into your life all of a sudden wouldn't be right for you at this time! Especially when, likeyou said, she doesn't even know you, nto to mention her attitude and loss of mental capacity. Crazyness that people think they can just drop things like that on other people. It will take some courage but hope you can call and say your piece, it's her mother at the end of the day and she needs to make sure she is taken care of beforew she goes off galivanting round the world. O and not long till you finish now WOOOOOOP!!!
Naomi - christmas is one of the most magical times for parents and young children. I can't wait for bean to be aware of the magic of santa and what he does. Ignore and carry on lol!
Sarah - so glad youv got Joe home!! Enjoy hunny!
Rachel - your daughter is beautiful. Congratulations hun
Jo - its so nice to get dressed up isn't it! I enjoyed getting all dressed up on satdy night for our parent meal. It took longer than usual but it was nice to look nice for a change lol!
iprettii - glad you enjoyed your baby shower after you weren't really looking forward to it that much. Bet you had a lovely day.
Well me and OH went to the pub last night to sit and chat about baby and birth plans and stuff that has come up at the antenatal classes. The NCT are awesome and give you so much info and things to think about. We decided not to chat at home so we giva the conversation our full attention and didn't get distracted by tv or anything else. We had a really good chat and wrote our plan together. He tries to over complicate stuff so it was nice to sort it all out with him. We are both feeling so excited and scared all at the same time, its nice to be on the same page.
In other news we ended up being so loving with each other after the convo last night that we *tmi alert* had a bit of sex this morning! Wooop! It wasn't the most amazing session, it was just nice to be so close to him when we haven't done it for soooo long. I was very aware of bean, very low down in my tummy and so couldn't concentrate, but it was just so loving and nice.
Today I am nesting again lol! I have cleaned the bathroom and even taken off the shower head to soak it in vinegar to clean it. Gonna do some present wrapping soon and then some baking this afternoon! Fun times!
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